"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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chick says "my butt stings/hurts from the tanning salon.. like when i sit down"

how would you respond??

Im thinking "Well, theres one way to find out"?

or

"I have a lotion that will make it go away"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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verysuave said:
chick says "my butt stings/hurts from the tanning salon.. like when i sit down"

how would you respond??

Im thinking "Well, theres one way to find out"?

or

"I have a lotion that will make it go away"
The answer to your question depends on what level you are on with the girl.
 

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londonzen said:
id tell her thats "2 much info" actually
I'd probably say something like that as a joke or I'd say something like "You think you're sore now?" hinting that when I'm done tappin' that she wont even be able to walk.
 

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She only said it to get you thinking about her butt... and her tan. :up:

How long have you known her? Like it was mentioned above... the response varies on what level you're at with her...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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