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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need deadlift form adjustment

hope7

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I tried regular deadlifts for the first time today. My complaint is that the bar scrapes my knees/shins on the way down. Should I keep bend my knee's less to avoid this, or lean over more?

Also, which arm should I use for my under grip (since deadlifts use the mixed grip), my strong arm or my weak arm?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hope7 said:
I tried regular deadlifts for the first time today. My complaint is that the bar scrapes my knees/shins on the way down. Should I keep bend my knee's less to avoid this, or lean over more?

Also, which arm should I use for my under grip (since deadlifts use the mixed grip), my strong arm or my weak arm?
the scraping means you're doing the exercise properly - either wear pants to avoid getting bloodied knees or just ignore it, it's hardly anything. do not lean over or do anything like that, your form is great.

use your stronger arm for the under grip. (at least I do)
 

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^^^^As above.
But if it is really hurting you that much (or you can't afford a pair of pants), you don't need to scrape your legs to be doing it correctly. Just make sure you keep it as close to your body as you can, the further away the bar, the less back/leg involvement in the exercise there is. Stronger-Side: Under, Weaker-Side: Over.
 

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Brian20o2 said:
Does anyone here use a hex bar for deads? I used it and liked it, plus you wont bloody up your shins.
uh. go back to the regular bar please.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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