"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sunnykhatri736

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Hey guys today i met a women on instagram
she is 30 and married
im 20 right now
i texted her then she replied " im a fashion blogger and im not single and im elder then you
me : ok then it was nice talking to u .
i dont want to waste my time on a woman who is taken. I would prefer walking away. Bye take care
her : yeah sure you too .
me : btw u married ?
her : yeah
me : i havent dated any married women. i would love to go out with u .
her : so u gonna date me because of that thrill .
me : yeah you are beautiful and bcz of that thrill toO
so two reasons
her : i havent met any guy like u
i would have dated u if i would have not been married
u can get a girl far better then me.

me : yeah sure i would get thousands of girls easily who are better then u .
but they wont be like u
i dont see any problem in a woman dating a young and classy guy.
her : dude u are one of a kind .
me : i know that . Tell me something different.
So i take it as a yes.
Give me ur number i will contact u once i get free with my busy schedule.
her : let me give it a thought properly . I hope u are not in a hurry?? You carry on with your stuff.
me : im not in a hurry , take ur time and drop me a call or text at ************. Bye cya.
i had this conversation today with her .
so guys what should be my next step and what should i say to her now and if she doesnt contact me then should i again talk to her on insta asking about she thought .
all kinds of suggestions and advice welcomed :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BrainDamage92

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mods, ban the guy above me, although hes right, hes butthurt and goes around bragging about how he cheats in his sleep

anyway you contradicted yourself so heavily you sound like a woman

''I dont waste time on taken women, cya"

then

"but would you go out with me"

this is foolish, this is like a woman talking about how much she loves her BF while her hand is on your crotch
 
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