"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I went to the party mentioned above, which turned out to be a good time. I was at an event the night before which I had met a lady at. Not thinking anything, I had mentioned about the party to her, which she showed up at. We had a good time, probably could have tried to go a little further, but really do not want to at this point. It was nice to be able to dance and not hear any BS excuses. There were others that I would liked to have met also too, but maybe will later in time. The ex GF never showed up but someone was there that may provide a field report to her... oh well.

Speaking of the ex GF, I had lost a friend on Facebook yesterday. The funny part of it is that when I had searched on her name out of curiosity to get to her profile, one of our pictures together still show up on her profile. Looks like mixed signals right to the end...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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