Need advice...Red-Flag chick with high-interest level.

[expos]

I had a friend text me today to tell me that a co-worker of his (HB7.5) is really into me. I made a comment to him that she was good looking (I was looking at a photo of him, this girl, and a few others), he went and told her, she saw my Facebook profile, and she gave him her number to pass along to me in a matter of minutes. I have never met this woman, and I've never said a word to her...and she thinks that I'm hot.

She wants me to text her...I haven't yet. But she had told my friend that she wants all of us to get together on Saturday night so she can meet me.

This was tremendous boost of confidence. She has been texting me this morning and seems really excited about meeting me.

However, my friend just told me the following things about her:

1. 30 years old, has 3 year old kid. Divorced.
2. Divorce finalized in March. She's already on the rebound? Not cool, she's clearly not in a good place.
3. Supposedly cheated on her husband a year or so ago with a co-worker.

So yeah...obviously this is looking too good. Good thing I'm on SS and reading up on how crazy women are...and not how to be desperate AFC...because otherwise I'd be giddy as a pig in sh!t.

But here's the thing, I'm already locked into meeting her on Saturday. Should I:

1. Just friendzone her the whole night?
2. Not go at all
3. Pump and Dump or just make out with her if she's throwing herself at me all night.

This doesn't seem like LTR material at all....advice?

 

[AlwaysSmile]

If youre looking for an LTR, that is all too much. Don't go!

 

[Zarky]

If you don't give a sh*t about your job: pump and dump
If you do give a sh*t about your job: be friendly and nothing more

EDIT:

Oh whoops, thought she was a co-worker of YOURS. Since she's not, pump and dump. Why not? She's on the rebound and likely f*cking a bunch of guys. Wear a condom.

 

[expos]

She's on the rebound and likely f*cking a bunch of guys. Wear a condom.

And that's precisely WHY I don't want anything to do with her. But my buddy said she hasn't had a date in like 10 years because she'd been married and with one guy for so long. When my friend approached her about me, she was really caught off guard and wasn't thinking about dating.

However, who knows what kind of rampage she's been on but hasn't disclosed it to her co-workers?

I don't want to flake on my friends, but she is tagging along. I just received the information this afternoon.

 

[TheException]

I feel like your stressing out/being judgemental over a woman you havent even met yet. Dont get me wrong...these:

1. 30 years old, has 3 year old kid. Divorced.
2. Divorce finalized in March. She's already on the rebound? Not cool, she's clearly not in a good place.
3. Supposedly cheated on her husband a year or so ago with a co-worker.

...are by no means prime real estate on paper, but ive learned to never judge a book by its cover. Maybe her husband was a super chump and her hypergamous nature demanded she divorce/cheat on him. A girl's past should stay in her past. Now if she cheated on her last 5 boyfriends....thats different.

I say you just go and kick it. If she turns out to be cool(hott)...awesome go for it. Once women get around 30, its going to be near impossible for them to have no baggage. Some red flags are worse than others....speaking of red flags....i think its a red flag that you are even thinking that far ahead. A LTR with a woman you havent even met yet....good god. Slow down pal and just enjoy your time out. Report back what you find.

 

[plate's_empty]

Take her in the bathroom, bend her over the toilette seat and fvck her.

Red flags? You haven't seen red flags.

 

[expos]

I feel like your stressing out/being judgemental over a woman you havent even met yet. Dont get me wrong...these:

1. 30 years old, has 3 year old kid. Divorced.
2. Divorce finalized in March. She's already on the rebound? Not cool, she's clearly not in a good place.
3. Supposedly cheated on her husband a year or so ago with a co-worker.

...are by no means prime real estate on paper, but ive learned to never judge a book by its cover. Maybe her husband was a super chump and her hypergamous nature demanded she divorce/cheat on him. A girl's past should stay in her past. Now if she cheated on her last 5 boyfriends....thats different.

I say you just go and kick it. If she turns out to be cool(hott)...awesome go for it. Once women get around 30, its going to be near impossible for them to have no baggage. Some red flags are worse than others....speaking of red flags....i think its a red flag that you are even thinking that far ahead. A LTR with a woman you havent even met yet....good god. Slow down pal and just enjoy your time out. Report back what you find.

Thanks.

I'll provide a recap of the night when it's all over.