Need advice REALLY badly

[Air Max]

Awrite, heres the script...I text (SMS) a girl right, sayin' stuff in it that was meant to be between the 2 of us, but then 3 of my mates saw them, and now like everyone knows. She had a boyfriend at the time I started textin her, but then dumped him soon after, she came onto me while she was going out with him, but it was subtle, but I knew straight off if you get me? Anyways thats the deal, so what do you think I should do now? Her ex is like a mate, and now he's like major pissed, and ain't talkin' to me. Any advice greatly appreciated, cheers!

 

[Steelie Dan]

Air Max,

Heck this happend to me, except I was the boyfreind. My ex and my roommate and close friend were hitting on each other before and soon after we broke up. I found out about it because I suspected something was going on. I went into his room and found AFC lovenotes to her. I kicked the dude out of my house that day. I have not tlaked to him since. And I have not talked to her in 6 weeks, and I won't. I don't deserve having liars and cheats in my life. Look Air Max. I'll be straight. You broke the code! Never hit on a mate's girlfriend, PERIOD. At least wait fo the body to get cold, and then ask permission from your mate. Girls come and go, but mates are forever. And I'll be blunt. People who say all is fair in love and war...I call BS. They are only justifying their AFC low self esteem. She is going to do the same to you. If I where you, you next her, and tell your mate what a scum bag you were, and that you understand why he is pissed, and that this will never happen again and that you will never contact his ex again. I mean really dude, there are thousands of women in the world, and you pick your mates GF. What the F**K you were thinking? And she picks you...what is she thinking? Sounds very Jerry Springer to me. Even if she hit on you...what is that about? Have some balls. Or get some therapy. Sorry if this seems harse...wait I'm not sorry...dump her and go take your mate for some beers, be a wingman for him, help him get laid, but promise to stay the heck away from his ex, and follow through. Can I tell your freind not to try to get back together with her. I'm speaking from experiance. Too much brain damage

This is my humble opinion! Take it or leave it!

SD

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Dude, you are 15 years old, so much drama in your life so soon??

Let her come to you willingly, and don't get involve in her's and her boyfriend's affair!

 

[Steelie Dan]

Hey Air Max, after I posted I saw that you were 15. Sorry to be so harsh. I dumped all over you. PRL is right. This is a good lesson to learn at a young age. I guess you can't buy the guy a beer. But chalk this up to growing up. I have friends since I was 3 and some since HS now, and I'm 44. Your mates are the best resources in your life. Don't break the code. I did once when I let a GF talked me into how "Bad" my friend was. Well the GF is gone, and I admitted my AFC crap to my friend. He and I are great buds now. In fact we always joke about the code. Which is: Never let GF get in between you and your close friends. I wish I was 15 when I learned this. Give yourself a break and hang with the mate, let her go! She is not worth it, espcially since you are early on in your DJ career. There are many more. Believe me.

Again, sorry to be so harsh.

SD

 

[Air Max]

Nah man, it's cool, glad you were straight with me, gave me a well deserved slap in the face and made me wake up to it! Cheers guys, help really appreciated btw!