"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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need advice. i should next this girl but i cant

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This girl... dammit...

hb9. She was the first girl I really did anything with. She is cute and awesome and really a good caring person. I really liked her, but more so because we did naughty things together.

I went out with her a few times and each night we went out, we went progressively farther with each other. she was really into me. she called and texted me a lot.

then all of a sudden her ex boyfriend came in from out of town and lived here in town for the summer. she just went back to him. this was when i was afc.

well i guess i drifted into the friend zone... we didnt talk for like 2 months, and then we talked for like 5 minutes about a month ago. she im'd me the other day about something on myspace, and i didnt respond before she signed off.

freakin girls... i still kind of want to get together with her, even if just for a night... but most of you would say NEXT her...

WTF to do, gentlemen?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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go to the coffee shop and start a conversation with the first girl that interests you.

If you are game, GO TO A CLUB.
 
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Not really much to do with her at this point.
 
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