**Edited** Just want advice on this specific situation..
Since the other post didnt get many responses. Id just like opinions on this one.
Aiight i talked to that one girl today who invited me into her room when i showed up at her door.. even though her room mate said she was sleeping when i came. She wrote her number down with her name on a big index card... i talked to her on the phone and we basically got the talking and the topic of her boyfriend came up... and she said "well we aint been going out that long... so its not that serious". And then i said "oh, u dont got serious feelings for him?" and she said "well he's my homeboy" and i responded by saying "he's your homeboy? normally homeboy means a good friend... aint he suppose to be your intimate boyfriend
" and she laughed. Then we went on talking and i told her i had a theory on men and women being friends... and she wanted to hear it. I basically told her that i dont believe in it because most of the time the guy likes the female, but the female just uses him as someone to talk to about her problems. Before ending the convo i told her that we should hang out sometime and she said "yeah, just give me a call babe". I said "aiight boo" then she said "bye sweety". So im thinking, since she knows that i dont do the whole friend thing with girls.. and that i still want to hang out... she knows what i want.. and the fact she's up for it, shouldnt this mean something?
Also, i did some good DJ'ing today.
Seen these 2 girls at their mail box for a prolonged amount of time and they were having trouble. So i offered some assistance, found out they didnt have boyfriends, and booked the one who i thought looked better. Was just talking to the other girl to be friendly.
Since the other post didnt get many responses. Id just like opinions on this one.
Aiight i talked to that one girl today who invited me into her room when i showed up at her door.. even though her room mate said she was sleeping when i came. She wrote her number down with her name on a big index card... i talked to her on the phone and we basically got the talking and the topic of her boyfriend came up... and she said "well we aint been going out that long... so its not that serious". And then i said "oh, u dont got serious feelings for him?" and she said "well he's my homeboy" and i responded by saying "he's your homeboy? normally homeboy means a good friend... aint he suppose to be your intimate boyfriend
Also, i did some good DJ'ing today.
Seen these 2 girls at their mail box for a prolonged amount of time and they were having trouble. So i offered some assistance, found out they didnt have boyfriends, and booked the one who i thought looked better. Was just talking to the other girl to be friendly.
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