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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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need a workout for big arms

omkara

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hey guys, I decided it's time to get back in the gym and I was wondering if I could get some help designing a workout program.

I was using Rippetoe's basic program for a while and was feeling pretty good, but pretty soon I ended up shredding my knee by increasing the weights too fast with squats and wearing the wrong shoes.

My main reason for going back into the gym is because I feel like s***. I used to feel a lot better when I was working out 3 x a week, but now I can't because I shredded my knee. (I'm planning to see a sports doctor for this when I get around to it.) So I'm trying to get back on that horse.

Rippetoe's program involves a lot of compound lifts, which I'm cool with, but I can't do squats now. And I find that with bench/military press/deadlifts, it tends to work the chest a lot. So I ended up having big triceps and big pecs, but small biceps, which made the pecs look more just like I had breasts, proportionally.

So I'm looking to start a workout which includes compound lifts but also works the 'glamour muscles', ie the upper arms. Because I can't just work the arms without rotating to workout other areas.

My main reason for going back to the gym is just to start feeling better and increase testosterone. I believe a guy with tight game should be able to attract girls just based on verbal game and personality alone. But it wouldn't be a bad thing to start looking more muscular.

Does anyone have any advice on what would be a good weekly program to start working my upper body? I am looking for something pretty simple, like say 1 hr 3 x a week.

thx peace
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Crissco

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Do a simple 3x a week split

Chest, Shoulder, Tris

Back, Bi's, Forearms

Legs

FYI- Triceps are supposed to be bigger then your biceps. They make up 1/3 of your arm.

Or you can read this, and take a split routine off of here.

http://www.t-nation.com/readArticle.do?id=1460447


I suggest this routine, since it technically hits your arms twice a week

Day1: Chest and Back
Day 2: Off
Day 3: Legs, Lower Back, and Abs
Day 4: Off
Day 5: Shoulders and Arms
Day 6 and 7: Off
 

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I do hammer curls (heavy), DB curls in various positions, and machine curls. I used to do a ton of barbell curls which I feel are best for strength, not so much size. Keep in mind I am a powerlifter, not a bodybuilder or physique guy. At their biggest my arms were around 19" cold, now they are around 18". Not huge, but a little bigger than average. The key to arm size is volume, and I dont do much arm volume. I only train arms for assistance in my other lifts.

The tried and true bench-tri/back-bi routine always worked well for me. Keep in mind biceps are a bit overrated---triceps are really the meat of the upper arm.
 

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I'm sure im still under 17" (which is normally where someone will be visibly big) - but i've recently started doing something different for my arms and they are definitely swelling up nicely. I adopted the HRT way for them (HRT = a bodybuilding method).

http://www.animalpak.com/html/article_details.cfm?section=training&id=455

Every monday, i do exactly what is listed there:

Day 1: Guns
• Close Grip Bench 2 x 8+4
• One Arm Machine Triceps Ext 2 x 8+4 (i use barbell instead of machine)
• Lying DB Triceps Ext 2 x 8+
• Standing DB Curls 2 x 8+4
• DB Preacher Curls 2 x 8+4
• Reverse Curls 2 x 8+4
• Forward and Reverse Wrist Curls 2 x 8+4
As the article explains - you only need to do 2 sets of (8) 5-second positive reps and (4) 5-second negative reps with a partner applying minor resitence. You use 60-80% of your 1RM, 2-5 minute break inbetween sets (you'll need it if you're doing this right).

For the rest of my week - i do typical strength training stuff. But i've found this to get results, so im sticking with it (until i don't get results with it anymore.) I don't notice any adverse effects of doing a bodybuilding routine on arms (meaning - it doesn't hurt my squat, bench, etc).....

Just something that has worked for me... No guarantees... experiment...
 

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Thanks for all the replies. I am kind of new to this so I will have to look into it and see what is manageable for me as a novice. I don't want to get too overwhelmed at first.

PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Here's what I do, works for me:

Incline Barbell curls 3x

Reverse barbell curls(standing) 3x

Hammer curls 3x


Weighted dips(shortened, with focus on triceps)

Incline Press, bench press (shoulders, biceps)


I had the same problem you had before, because I do everything on the same day and always did chest first. I still do chest first but I focus more on doing more reps and lower weights and not lifting to failure to let my arms catch up. I also put the dips and hammer curls in and that helped a lot, triceps and forearms can get overlooked. No way could I even do those when I was maxing out on bench.
Sounds like you don't have any compound lifts or lower body stuff in there? Or is this just what you do for arms? I agree about not wanting to max out on bench first and get all tired out for the arm exercises.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I won't go into specifics but for "Big Arms" Lifts such as Deadlift, Squat, and Rows are the essentials.
 
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