"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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need a response FAST

mr_guido

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okay guys I need a response fast as I'm leaving for school in and hour and a half :p

So, there's this chick in bio, bangin hot, and all my friends know her well and they all told me that she really likes me. And let me tell you it's pretty obvious that she does. Got a text yesterday from a buddy of mine who's friends with her, and he said that I should 'lay it down on her,' that I'm 'knocking her dead' (saw me walking down the hall with her). So this is what I've come up with for today: in class her desk is at a 90 degree angle with me and my buddy's desk, and since he's always late for class, I'm always early and she shows up right after me, I'm thinking I'm going to see if she wants to sit with me for class, and maybe I'll make some moves aka a quick makeout sesh or something of that nature. Input/thoughts/ideas/suggestions/help/tips or anything's appreciated at this point.

The weird thing: I've only got three classes this semester and one is by correspondance. So I don't think I see her enough to ask her out, but I know she wants me to....I'm thinking just keep it at this flirty level for now then? Thanks bros
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Libertine

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Get her number,ask her out,**** her. I don't really think that you'll be able to get a "quick make-out sesh" in school- girls tend to act a little bit colder and you can't kino that hard as they don't want to be labeled as sluts.
 

LearningSlowly

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Yeah make out seems unrealistic on school time (unless youre Nino, he does that all the time). Agree with the hand holding, make a direct and obviously deliberate move.
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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