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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

JonnyD123

Don Juan

Aug 18, 2015

So this flight attendant chick in another city I've been bangin for about 6 months now calls me up and tells me she's overnighting in my city tonight.

I say "great let's get together."

She then says "oh, I don't do that while I'm working."

Granted, every time we have hooked up she has been off duty, in her city.

But I tell her "so wtf did you call me for then?" Things got kind of awkward and then she abruptly "had to go." Couldn't have ended any worse.

A huge part of me wants to say something, I just don't know what. I also know it might be better to keep my mouth shut all together. Thoughts?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.