We've all been there. Your girl rejects you and you can't help but feel crushed. You try not to act needy or desperate but you're only human.
This happened to me as my girlfriend was leaving for the airport. She wouldn't even give me a kiss during our last hour together.
I was able to maintain my composure for the 2 hour ride to the airport and stayed positive, even getting her a souveneir on the way. She sent a thank-you text message when she got home, but I then immediately put NC into play.
Four LONG days went by (we had never gone a single day without texting - on average 25 per day - since we met). I feared I had implemented NC too late.
However just today I got the longest, most heart-felt letter I ever got from her in our 3 months together. She wrote that she misses me, is sorry and wants to see me again.
I won't get to see her for 2 weeks anyhow until I am back in her city. She seemed to be still hung up on her ex who dumped her and she even told me at one point "you need to make me chase you for a while". I'm thinking I need to maintain NC since she only wants what she can't have.
What do you think?
This happened to me as my girlfriend was leaving for the airport. She wouldn't even give me a kiss during our last hour together.
I was able to maintain my composure for the 2 hour ride to the airport and stayed positive, even getting her a souveneir on the way. She sent a thank-you text message when she got home, but I then immediately put NC into play.
Four LONG days went by (we had never gone a single day without texting - on average 25 per day - since we met). I feared I had implemented NC too late.
However just today I got the longest, most heart-felt letter I ever got from her in our 3 months together. She wrote that she misses me, is sorry and wants to see me again.
I won't get to see her for 2 weeks anyhow until I am back in her city. She seemed to be still hung up on her ex who dumped her and she even told me at one point "you need to make me chase you for a while". I'm thinking I need to maintain NC since she only wants what she can't have.
What do you think?