"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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National Geographic Article

Bad_Lil'Pixie

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The Feb 2006 issue of National Geographic features an article entitled: Love, a Chemical Reaction.

In truth, I just received the issue in the mail yesterday and haven't had a chance to read it in full, just scanned it briefly.

It really looks interesting and I thought many of you may enjoy the perspective that National Geographic may offer on the subject.

WOW, it DOES offer something other then naked, hut woman boobie photos. LOL!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I love NG. I dont pay for it though. I have to wait a month after so i can wait until someone drops their copy off at work then i steal it.
 

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Originally posted by Bad_Lil'Pixie
WOW, it DOES offer something other then naked, hut woman boobie photos. LOL!

Damn, I was looking forward to checking out the boobies too! Guess I'll cancel my subscription. I only read NG for the um, articles. Like Hustler . . .:crackup:
 

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Ahhhh yes, the naked, hut women boobie pics were the elementary lads first intro to porn back in my day! LOL

The little boys would all flock to the 'yellow shelf', the snickers would be heard over the media center and of course, they'd get caught and scolded.

Hmmm, come to think of it, was the scolding part of the excitement???

You dirty little boys! LOL
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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