"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nasman

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This will be my last post on this site. I never had the internet since 1 month ago. I have spent way too much time on this site, and on the internet. Now it is time for me to go on to bigger and better things. The best of luck to everyone. Keep pimpin.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nasman, a man with a moral compass is leaving - more people with your perspective is needed here!! Good luck in your pursuits!!
 

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yeah man, don't be afraid to come back to visit although I as well will be leaving the internet for quite a bit of time because I am losing my internet connection as well. You made some good posts that lead to some good discussion.

See ya man,
Comic_relief
 

Nasman

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Exp said:
You will eventually return. Every guy that has made a post about leaving this site has come back.

Holy shvt your right I am back already..... :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sexy_kuta

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yo man... always

i mean ALWAYS..

keep it gangster.

Pce
 

KillaCam

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He's not going anywhere.
 

Docs

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Hmm, 117 posts and out, didn't even leave a ripple (aside from this thread)

Signal to Noise Ratio, Undetectable.
:woo:
 

DarkLight

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^^^...lmao.
Gotta love how someone w. only a 117 posts, would even feel the need to broadcast "I'm out."
What delusions of grandeur.

My guess is, he'll make it to 200 by Xmas, and be banned by NewYear's.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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rrrrr

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I think when I stop posting here, I'm going to write this long elaborate email explaining how I'm not going to post on here anymore, and farewell, I'm gonna miss all you... most likely, and what usually happens on the message boards i go to, they'll change the website and make you have to sign up again, in which I won't bother.., but lately works been kinda slow, so I've been racking up the posts.
 
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Last Man Standing said:
Nasman, a man with a moral compass is leaving - more people with your perspective is needed here!! Good luck in your pursuits!!
Did I say this?? After reading some of your posts I change my mind :D
 

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Yeah, even I said I would leave and I came back. I was enlisting in the military and though I was really going. But yeah this internet is a problem we need to fix.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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