"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Narcissistic Personality Inventory: Do you have narcissistic tendencies? Find out.

What score bracket are you in?

  • 0-4

    Votes: 1 7.1%
  • 5-9

    Votes: 1 7.1%
  • 10-14

    Votes: 1 7.1%
  • 15-19

    Votes: 1 7.1%
  • 20-24

    Votes: 3 21.4%
  • 25-29

    Votes: 5 35.7%
  • 30-34

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 35-40

    Votes: 2 14.3%

  • Total voters
    14

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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22/40

 

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29/40. Most successful people have narcissistic personality traits. I'd bet that the most narcissistic personalities are also the best with women.

I maxed out the superiority and entitlement bar chart.
 
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Nobody who sees me post here with regularity and sees me get flamed for being a show off is going to be surprised, lol.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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skinnyguy

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Narcissistic people have a huge advantage in life. Not only do they get laid more, but they make more money (Trump) and don’t feel depressed.

If you have low self esteem in this world your life is pretty much over. Narcissists rule the world.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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This is a stupid test. It’s too much in absolutes. There are varying degrees to it, not one or the other. Take the ‘would rather be the center of attention or blend into the crowd’ question. I don’t care for blending into the crowd and following everyone else. If what I want happens to be in line with them, then good. If not, then who gives a ****? I am probably more narcissistic than others, but only because I try to be a stronger person than most others.
 

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Haha, ok. I'm a functional narcissist. I already knew that. BUT, I give damn good advice on SS too!

Yes, "I look at myself in the mirror", LOL
 

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I failed the test the first time 52746956-8E2E-4CEE-8EB8-537235855335.png

So I retook it to get a 100% on it because I’m Asian
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I now know how to be a narcissist.

Also, here’s my actual score lol:
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I still hold to my belief that the test is stupid though in that it works in absolutes
 
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