Narcissism vs Lust

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

lamath

Master Don Juan

Jul 5, 2020

Lynx nkaf said:
look at this @stormrider what do you think?

To be fair its what Rollo explain when he define male and female conflicting reproductive strategy and imperative.

Not that deep, but a simplification.

However coming from my biologist background i can say that im surprise that aspect of sexual selection is not seen from that angle very often. Cuckholding is something i only saw very shortly explained in my biology class in college.
In birds its very detrimental to the reproductive of the male cucked bird genes but very beneficial to the female.

Last edited: Jul 5, 2020

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.