"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Name me one technique that gives me power over women.

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Regarding attention. That's not a way to go about getting "power"..

These days women have so many different sources of attention, Facebook, Constantly getting texts, a plethora of male "friends" etc.
Even when they are in a relationship they don't all of a sudden get rid of these sources of attention.

So yeah she'll just find another source of attention if you withdraw yours.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SamTheHobit said:
Regarding attention. That's not a way to go about getting "power"..

These days women have so many different sources of attention, Facebook, Constantly getting texts, a plethora of male "friends" etc.
Even when they are in a relationship they don't all of a sudden get rid of these sources of attention.

So yeah she'll just find another source of attention if you withdraw yours.
O.P is doing nothing more than trollololing with his "question" knowing what he's really trying to say is: "Women simply "exist" and get attention and sex while men have to do all the work."

As if off the ASSumption that any "one" woman can get attention and sex from ANY man by "simply existing", while knowing a man on his own simply cannot get "every"and or any woman.

IRT is working overtime.
 
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Naughty Ninja said:
O.P is doing nothing more than trollololing
I can't believe this guy is actually 43 years old.
 

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"Opposition"

Do everything opposite of what your normally do, if a hot girl walks in the room ignore her, if a chick wants you to cuddle after sex.......leave. If you get the number from a girl, call her 5 days later.

Do everything opposite of a normal guy would do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Fatal Jay said:
"Opposition"

Do everything opposite of what your normally do, if a hot girl walks in the room ignore her, if a chick wants you to cuddle after sex.......leave. If you get the number from a girl, call her 5 days later.

Do everything opposite of a normal guy would do.
Exactly . and be unpredictable and give your attention wisely as Atom had mention
 

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Philippe Schlichting said:
I can't believe this guy is actually 43 years old.
It doesn't matter. My white-ness trumps everything IRT.



Now back to your lame attempt at the agenda in your "question".

O.P is doing nothing more than using a "question" to go in circles assuming ANY woman could sheerly "exist" and would have any man giving her attention and sex, while going round and round using one man could not get every woman nor could every man get every woman based off one thing alone.

Nice try though.
 

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Let's understand that men value love, and women love value. Here's some things that really help.

1. Being physically attractive.

2. Being Financially attractive.

3. Being Socially attractive.

4. Having options always. This grows more the more of #s 1-3 are.

Being indefferent can help, but women always have options. If she sees you as unattractive or low value, she'll label everything you do and say as such. Stop giving her your attention, she'll go to POF, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc. to get her fix.

Case closed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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4. Having options always.
How do you have options if every girl behaves the same way?
 

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Philippe Schlichting said:
How do you have options if every girl behaves the same way?
What, you don't understand how to have options? Look... Some girls will be interested you, some won't be. If you find that NO girls are interested in you, i suggest you think hard and honestly about why this is happening, man up and realize that there is something wrong with how you are doing things... At a basic level.
 
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Randomer said:
I find this funny in the context of this thread.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
Regarding attention. That's not a way to go about getting "power"..

These days women have so many different sources of attention, Facebook, Constantly getting texts, a plethora of male "friends" etc.
Even when they are in a relationship they don't all of a sudden get rid of these sources of attention.

So yeah she'll just find another source of attention if you withdraw yours.
Well that's like saying: "A man will just find another source of sex if you withdraw yours".

Doesn't sex work the same way for men as attention for women? But we men don't want sex from just ANY woman. Likewise.. women don't want attention from just ANY man. They want attention from men who:

A. They are attracted to
B. Have something to offer them
C. Don't give their attention to just ANYONE


Therefore, by throttling your attention you become a challenge.. thus making you more appealing. A woman who gets your attention is "better than other women" because you don't give your attention to just ANY woman.

When you are stingy with your attention to a woman.. you communicate that you have many options and only the best women will hold your attention. You communicate that keeping you attention requires WORK. You communicate that you have value. :up:
 

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Philippe Schlichting said:
There is this saying in the community that pickup gave you power.

Name one technique that gives me power over women.

What I mean is: Which technique, ie, what you do or say right now, gives you power over women. The question stems from realizing that women by their sheer existance get attention and sex. I am asking for a technique that offers the same power with the same effort being put in.

I am not asking this for the record, I don't want you to list every useless fact that comes to mind, but to mention something to use against women next time who display their female power against you. For instance it is very easy to be seen as lower value by women. It seems as if they were waiting for something they could see as lower value in you.
To have power over a women, you first have to have something she wants that she can't get anywhere else, or thinks its too much of a hassle to find anywhere else. You have to have an ASSET she wants and then you can use it to gain power over her. If she wants to be associated with a rich guy, money. A famous guy, status. A handsome guy, looks, etc.

I don't think indifference is good option to use against girls. She goes out with another guy, you are indifferent? She insults you? You are indifferent? She says she wants to break up? You are indifferent? It doesn't make sense, she'll think you are high all the time.

Find out what is important to her, and then squeeze it until you get the sex from her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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