"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mystery Method and Day Sarging

WestCoast1492

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Is it just me, or does a lot of the MM not make sense for day/night sarging of lone wolves in public places?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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THE_ADDMAN

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well, he focuses on group theory, saying ppl tend to be found in groups.
I think I heard him talking about if it WAS a lone woman by herself, he would just go direct on her and leave group dynamics out (unless her friend came along)
 

DJ_in_making

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Yea, like Addman said, Mystery focuses on groups, but makes it sort of seem as if hot girls are NEVER alone...
But pretty much the same rules can be applied; Except you obviously can't ignore the girl if she's the only one. You can still NEG, DHV and all that good stuff.
 

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Most of the things that make someone successful using Mystery Method are still the same:

looking like a cool guy (well groomed and dressed)
having a positive vibe
come across as or interesting, different in a good way
genuine love for life, happy
a guy who is building a life women will want to be a part of
etc

Without those things, I really don't think the odds of pulling using MM in *any* context is likely anyway. With those things, the odds of pulling is high. In day game you may still encounter compliance issues, and some guys have found (myself included) that you actually get *less* compliance problems being somewhat straightforward... although just about anything will work. Simply saying, is this seat taken? and sitting down and starting a conversation works all the time. If you fix the things in the list above, then you will probably find that damn near anything works, at least that has been the case for me.
 
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