"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stoner1129

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Ok I know already about switchin it up, and i'm gonna switch it up, but someone tell me if i'm wrong which I probably am, but isn't what I was doin a direct approach or type of it?? I thought direct approaches were supposed to be good? I'm just curious.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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collalife

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Evol said:
I think you're giving it away a little too easily.

Women like to be pursued, yes. But not like that. We want to know you're the hard to get kind. If you're doling it out like this...well...it doesn't leave much for the imagination.

What about the thrill of the chase? Don't be so juvenile.
you talking to me?
 
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