"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
My wife often condems people who cheat
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
I dont know your wife, but lots of people condem things that they dont want happening to themselves, when they get into that particular position however they act differently.
Next time she brings it up, mention that it takes two to tango and that both people are just as responsible. After she gives you the victim mentality response, ask her why she brings this up, why she thinks that men are the ones who are bad for cheating and if theres something she would like to tell you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Just something to consider.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Spot on man!!!Francisco d'Anconia said:
And this is SO true in many aspects of our everyday life.
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How fvcking enlightening. Please share more with the rest of the class. Thrall us with your acumen.trajhenkhet02 said: