"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My vegas experience.

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Firstly, I am by no means a "DJ" or "PUA" or anything of that sort. I just wanted to share my Vegas experience and the results(or lack-there-of) I had while there. LONG POST INCOMING

My friend planned a small wedding in Vegas and wanted me to come. My initial decision was of course No, as I thought it would be too expensive. He then dropped the bomb on me and asked me to be his best man. I couldn't deny him that.

So there I was in Vegas. To my disappointment, nobody else (outside of the bride and grooms family) showed up. My friend, who used to be down to party and have a good time, seems to have turned into the exact PW guy that we always made fun of. That's a shame. They have the entire trip planned out and they're going to sleep around 9pm every night so they can get up early for some lame show. I think they had MAYBE a single drink the entire time there. That's fine, it's their weekend afterall and I don't have to approve of how they spend their time.

So, I end up flying solo the entire weekend. Mostly I just end up drunkenly walking the strip and meeting up with other people who are doing the same.

LONG STORY SHORT
The last night that I'm there, I end up in a club alone as the first person out on the dance floor. I went in with the intentions of dancing, and then it turned into me trying to get other people out on the dance floor. People probably thought I worked there or something. I end up dancing with almost every girl in that club. I'm having an awesome time. I eventually drank too much (around 11 shots w/o realizing it) and went on autopilot. I knew I wouldn't be getting laid at this point as my ability to concentrate was gone. Here's a list of things that I remember happening throughout that day/night.

-I got a handicapped guy to come out and dance in a large group I had formed...he had an awesome time (he was just in a wheelchair...he came out and starts pop/locking)

-Danced with almost every girl in there. I couldn't even leave the dance floor without a some random girl running up to my table and dragging me back out.

-Some girl that was pretty cool starts playing ultra hard-to-get. Her and I start this "I hate you" type war. Teasing and leaving, pushing each other away only to have her come back after I'm back mingling with other chicks (this makes no sense to me)

-Some guy tries to ****block me...telling me to Leave the girl alone. I ask him "Who are you bro? You having a good time today or what?" I high-five him and he tries to talk to the girl. She walks away from the **** blocker and throws her arms around my neck. (also makes no sense to me)

-Some girl feeds me some of her party cake.

-Another girl takes my shirt off while I'm dancing with her. (I work out + low bodyfat)

-Security asks me to put my shirt back on and laughs at the situation.



My night comes to a crawl at this point as I've had too much to drink. I never thought it would be possible to dance with every girl in a club and not take a single one back to the hotel...in Vegas.

Well...there's the rundown of my Vegas experience as a solo guy in a club. Had a blast, but I genuinely don't understand women sometimes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tacorosa said:
Firstly, I am by no means a "DJ" or "PUA" or anything of that sort. I just wanted to share my Vegas experience and the results(or lack-there-of) I had while there. LONG POST INCOMING

My friend planned a small wedding in Vegas and wanted me to come. My initial decision was of course No, as I thought it would be too expensive. He then dropped the bomb on me and asked me to be his best man. I couldn't deny him that.

So there I was in Vegas. To my disappointment, nobody else (outside of the bride and grooms family) showed up. My friend, who used to be down a party and have a good time, seems to have turned into the exact PW guy that we always made fun of. That's a shame. They have the entire trip planned out and they're going to sleep around 9pm every night so they can get up early for some lame show. I think they had MAYBE a single drink the entire time there. That's fine, it's their weekend afterall and I don't have to approve of how they spend their time.

So, I end up flying solo the entire weekend. Mostly I just end up drunkenly walking the strip and meeting up with other people who are doing the same.

LONG STORY SHORT
The last night that I'm there, I end up in a club alone as the first person out on the dance floor. I went in with the intentions of dancing, and then it turned into me trying to get other people out on the dance floor. People probably thought I worked there or something. I end up dancing with almost every girl in that club. I'm having an awesome time. I eventually drank too much (around 11 shots w/o realizing it) and went on autopilot. I knew I wouldn't be getting laid at this point as my ability to concentrate was gone.
Here's a list of things that happened throughout that night.

-I got a handicapped guy to come out and dance in a large group I had formed...he had an awesome time

-Danced with almost every girl in there

-Some girl that was pretty cool starts playing ultra hard-to-get. Her and I start this "I hate you" type war. Teasing and leaving, pushing each other away only to have her come back after I'm back mingling with other chicks (this makes no sense to me)

-Some guy tries to ****block me...telling me to Leave the girl alone. I ask him "Who are you bro? You having a good time today or what?" I high-five him and he tries to talk to the girl. She walks away from the **** blocker and throws her arms around my neck. (also makes no sense to me)

-Some girl feeds me some of her party cake.

-Another girl takes my shirt off while I'm dancing with her.

-Security asks me to put my shirt back on and laughs at the situation.

My night comes to a crawl at this point as I've had too much to drink.


I never thought it would be possible to dance with every girl in a club and not take a single one back to the hotel.

Well...there's the rundown of my Vegas experience as a solo guy in a club. Had a blast, but I genuinely don't understand women sometimes.

Vegas is INSANE. If no one here's visited there you NEED to go. Forget the pompous B.S that goes on in Vegas. Go. Do you. Have fun. EASY WORK. Nuff said.
 

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awesome bro, wish I could've winged with you and we would've both gotten laid....I left Vegas sour and confused too because I went for a chick and ended up just getting ****ed around...what clubs were you at?

Also it sounds to me like you seriously just didn't escalate anything. You were the fun guy that every girl wanted to meet and hang out with. Yet you never escalated physically and tried to make out/pull one of them back with you. I think you were surprised by how successful you can be with positivity/good energy and you were taken aback. Now you know.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In10se said:
awesome bro, wish I could've winged with you and we would've both gotten laid....I left Vegas sour and confused too because I went for a chick and ended up just getting ****ed around...what clubs were you at?

Also it sounds to me like you seriously just didn't escalate anything. You were the fun guy that every girl wanted to meet and hang out with. Yet you never escalated physically and tried to make out/pull one of them back with you. I think you were surprised by how successful you can be with positivity/good energy and you were taken aback. Now you know.
I only went to Carnival because it was an outdoor club with a mix between a live 80s/90s cover band and current. Plus it was right outside of my Hotel.

I always have the problem with "pulling the trigger." I get so caught up in the moment that I halt escalation or don't start it in the first place. A couple of other times my friends have pulled me aside to say "Man she's into you. You need to make a move." I'll take a risk, make a move, and end up with a makeout. Since I'm not used to getting makeouts from randoms, I get thrown off again and end up not pulling them back to my place or taking it further. I guess that's part of learning though.
 
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