kenpiffyjr
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- May 3, 2011
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I have come to the ultimate conclusion with experience and this board guiding me towards the real feeling that I now have in my head and has been there for a good year. I'm gonna be direct because that is what I wished someone would have done to me...but fellas it's pretty much the ultimate conclusion.
If at any point you feel like you're unrationally digging a woman, texting her...calling her...call it oneitis or whatever...dump her! Either dump her in your head and immediately force yourself to draw back and spin plates...or just do the quick snip. I know this is hard...but it's the truth of what you need to hear. Don't think "but she's so nice". Do it immediately! Do not talk yourself out of it. Sure...go to the bar and drink your pain away, but BE A MAN and live with your decision!
The only true relationship that will be a success for yourself in the long run is a relationship where you aren't fulfilled with "love" but the woman is. Find something else in the world that makes you fall in love and treat your woman like how older cats talk about their 67 Chevy in the garage that they "love". I know some cats scream MGTOW...but if you think like this, you won't have to fully convert to that type of mindset. The moment you catch this oneitis...you've lost the woman. Her all pro level manipulation skills will trick you for a while to make you think she's so happy...but no! Women are so insecure at the depth of them...so insecure and unsure of themselves...that they will view you loving them stupid in their head. Then on top of that...they will ENVY your love. It will make her think "why can't I have that type of feeling?" More on women envying us below.
I know because of our society and upbringing...you scream it's unfair. But let women have googly eyed love! So many different things out here...you don't need it! I firmly believe that the only reason majority of women don't value love the way we do is because the stereotype is that men don't care about love so they want to be us. They don't know the REAL obstacles and how we truly feel but they are so impressionable that they'll believe any and everything despite looking deeper. I respect the women who actually sit down and try like the ones on our board, but I know even they will confirm... At the end of the day, majority of women JUST WANT TO BE US! They think even us getting 20% of the pie is Unfair!
I read this in another discussion but The next broad you decide to entertain...treat her like a car lease. Truly imprint it in your head that yes I know I have a great car now, but I know at some point...i won't feel the same way and very well may be in the neighborhood to sign a new lease. Treat the car good...stay up on your maintenance...but realize she is in your life just like a car is.
I promise you guys, you will have more success.
If at any point you feel like you're unrationally digging a woman, texting her...calling her...call it oneitis or whatever...dump her! Either dump her in your head and immediately force yourself to draw back and spin plates...or just do the quick snip. I know this is hard...but it's the truth of what you need to hear. Don't think "but she's so nice". Do it immediately! Do not talk yourself out of it. Sure...go to the bar and drink your pain away, but BE A MAN and live with your decision!
The only true relationship that will be a success for yourself in the long run is a relationship where you aren't fulfilled with "love" but the woman is. Find something else in the world that makes you fall in love and treat your woman like how older cats talk about their 67 Chevy in the garage that they "love". I know some cats scream MGTOW...but if you think like this, you won't have to fully convert to that type of mindset. The moment you catch this oneitis...you've lost the woman. Her all pro level manipulation skills will trick you for a while to make you think she's so happy...but no! Women are so insecure at the depth of them...so insecure and unsure of themselves...that they will view you loving them stupid in their head. Then on top of that...they will ENVY your love. It will make her think "why can't I have that type of feeling?" More on women envying us below.
I know because of our society and upbringing...you scream it's unfair. But let women have googly eyed love! So many different things out here...you don't need it! I firmly believe that the only reason majority of women don't value love the way we do is because the stereotype is that men don't care about love so they want to be us. They don't know the REAL obstacles and how we truly feel but they are so impressionable that they'll believe any and everything despite looking deeper. I respect the women who actually sit down and try like the ones on our board, but I know even they will confirm... At the end of the day, majority of women JUST WANT TO BE US! They think even us getting 20% of the pie is Unfair!
I read this in another discussion but The next broad you decide to entertain...treat her like a car lease. Truly imprint it in your head that yes I know I have a great car now, but I know at some point...i won't feel the same way and very well may be in the neighborhood to sign a new lease. Treat the car good...stay up on your maintenance...but realize she is in your life just like a car is.
I promise you guys, you will have more success.