"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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my thoughts on the game...

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These are some of my simple thoughts on the game... :)

~You can't win every time, however every loss.. You still win because you must learn from your mistakes

~Practice makes perfect

~You know when you play basketball or some other sport, and you just don't feel like it? Not in the mood? Not doing your best? Isn't that when we usually LOSE? DO YOU BEST, don't be ashamed to say that you have failed doing your best.

~Being Rejected by someone of any value does not make her higher than you. There are a number of reasons an HB5 or HB6 can turn you down, and it's not our fault.

~When you first start out, like in any other unfamiliar game, you lose alot. But you improve alot also. So don't get discouraged when you lose a couple of dates because of dumb moves or whatever. It's called learning.

~Don't give up, when there is still chance. When there is still a valid chance to lay a girl or to reach your goal reach for it. If you fail, don't take it to heart. Make it a learning experience.

~Learn when to give up. Did I just contradict myself? Nope. What I meant was, there are times when you've obviously lost and stand 0-1% of winning. Don't bother. Just next her. It will save you time and resources.

~Approaching. How can you expect to have girls? I mean, sure there are friends' friends but hey are only limited, right? Approaching is pretty much where it starts. How can we expect to get to the main game not approaching? Sosuave people stress it out for a reason. So go ahead and approach.

~Value/Compliance. It's simple for me. You obey someone you are beneath them. They obey you and you are above them. Simple as that. So when a girl asks you a favor, it's a test. If you pass you move on. You fail, you lose.

~Aim high. Like one man once said, "Aim for the moon... Even if you miss, you will be amongst the stars". Aiming for sex.. What if you miss? You get a kiss or a hug. But aim for something higher, like say, make her give you and IPOD or a new car part accessory.. Then getting laid would be pretty low on you're list and much easy to obtain.

~Failure. Do you work out? If you do, you probably know that muscle failure is a good way to strengthen your muscles. In my opinion failing makes you stronger. "For what doesn't kill me, only makes me stronger" cliche eh. HAHA. :)

~Kino. I look at kino as simply a guage to see her IL. Ofcourse it also works to UP her IL(Interest level), or get her aroused if you do it correctly. Kino is a must learn.

~Kiss her. Kiss her? Yes. It's the step you need to take before you Fvck close her. :)

~Love. Don't fall for it. I'm not saying love is not real. Ofcourse it is. I love my mom very much. (HAHA) What i'm saying is here protect your heart at all times.

~Gut. Sometimes we need to trust our guts even as though it may go against the DJ BIBLE. This is how I feel.

~Confidence. Don't act confident, be confident. It's different.

Comments on my thoughts would be appreciated, i'm always open to learn new things and discuss new thoughts. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Me likes.

I like to go for the anal sex close when I bang a girl for the first time. It's aiming higher than just fvcking the pvssy. ;)
 

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Yeah, man.. I'm getting addicted to the game. So much to learn. DJing is the BEST GAME EVER! :D

I've been reading the BIBLE non-stop. :) I've made my mistakes, and it sucks. but it's a proccess of learning.

don't worry about stats or scores.

Would you rather:

a) 100 attempts; 45 success

b) 0 attemps; 0 success

c) 1 attempt; 1 success

I dont know about u guys, but i'd choose A.

Who cares about ratio or statistics? It's about you getting what u want and getting it in abundance! No matter what it takes. :)
 

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Me likes.

I like to go for the anal sex close when I bang a girl for the first time. It's aiming higher than just fvcking the pvssy. ;)
HAHA. :) Always good to aim high... This is so true.
 
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