"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My theory of AFCism being a disease isn't washing with the masses

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My dad is older and some of the work he had to put in as a youngster was amazing ... growing up in a rural area, etc. Most men in the 1910's, 20's, 30's, 40's, and some of the 50's, were too busy working their butts off at work and when they're at home. Your average lawn mower didn't have a motor, for example. Just tough pushing the whole way. Chop wood, no fancy fake electric fire place ... no cell phone, you actually had to make your fingers work on a rotary phone. No remote, heck no TV.

Technology has made us lazy slobs, we can't even get up to change the channel or roll our car windows up and down. It's a cushy life.

That said, TV and the internet has really feminized men. You turn on the TV and see zero role models for men, and if someone is the least bit masculine, they'll be shouted down by the likes of some woman's show. (Reminds me of Homer Simpson flipping the channels, he happens upon some Oprah-type show and a woman in the stands stands up and yells, "Men Suck!" Homer quickly flips the channel.)

I think a lot of this new technology and feminization of men and identity crisis has a ton to do with all these shootings.

Heck, men at the turn of the 20th century were too busy working to think about their feelings. They had to build homes, buildings, roads, etc., all the things we take for granted today.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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