"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My summary of this week.

solisashley68

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Holla, Just thought I should write down what I did this week.Okay so my goal of not being on sosuave 24/7 trying to find the next magic bullet is working, I think I know enough already the basics.On monday there is this chick I hit on at school, we had a good conversation and I asked her out but she told me she had a guy so yeah too bad.Ever since i've been on my path of Don juanism, I find it easier to play the game in my hood than at school, thing is they've always known me as that quiet,shy and lay low kinda guy.Now that im starting to chang alil, its like they get pissed when I start speaking up but i know im on the right path.On Tuesday I tried going solo at school cause my hommies are now potheads,I regret introducing em to weed cause I don't smoke now and the sarge didn't go well,everytime I saw a target, theories,methods and techniques clouded my head! I really got to stop reading so much philosophy.Wednesday and Thursday sucked! Yesterday, some crazy funny guy at school dared to approach a 8.0 with a small body and really huge tits. And I surprised myself by going to her, afterall I normally Dj out of school and on chicks my age or younger, she was definately older.I got there and just said Hi, we were in the hall so everyone was looking.It went well and I got her numbers! Im gonna call her after I'm done typing this. Later on that day, i approached two girls at school, they were nice but were in a hurry so I didnt get much other than their names.Today my hommie came and collected me to go sarge in another hood,I carried a knife because that hood is known for being notorious.We approached 3 groups today.And what I learned is this, never take a wingman thats physically more attractive than you.Im not ugly,that I know but there some girls screamed 'Chris brown'! When they saw him.He is lighter than me and a tad bit taller.When conversing with the group i had to really crack a joke to get a bit of attention lol!, he would just stand there and they would melt.Anyway I got a number so its not that bad.I guess now I really gotta work on DJing at school and I want to get confidence on my own instead of taking it from this website everytime I feel down.Aidos bro's I'll be back to post what happens next week! Hope its good!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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