"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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my secret no. 1

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Have you ever started the day out bad and in lieu of that every event becomes perpetually worse? Ever notice how your subconscious mood effects not only your present surroundings, but also the people in your near proximity? This is due to the state in which your mindset is in. Believe it or not, the subliminal messages coursing through your brain, can and will exude from your body and change the current setting that you inhabit. You dont even have to say a thing. Your body is experiencing a frequency that you have voluntarily manifested one way or another.
Many posts on this site merge toward viewing yourself as the prize but what they fail to explain is that faking it till you make it is absolutely the wrong way to adopt this attitude. Dont put the cart in front of the horse so to speak.
Once and only once you have valued yourself as the most confident person you can become all the other awesome characteristics will fall into place. Such as independence, assertiveness, sincerity, pride/humbleness, humor, persistence. Just to list a few. and guess what, these are the traits women list most important in their potential mates not abs and biceps. Although chizzled good looks are a good sign of superior physical capabillites. The true good women will love you for your masculinity that you never faked.
They can sense the genuwine man in you or the lack of it. This will not happen over night but will diligence and persistence, and years of tempering you will start to feel like a true man.
The kind of man who doesnt care at all if a chick flakes or dumps him, he knows that he will find another better than her in no time at all. (prize attitude) Shell see this and want him, crave him. See how this works? He doesnt give a flying crap what she does, it never gets under his skin. and she loves this about him. it drives her nuts, pushes her buttons, gets her wet, and forces her to submit to his manliness. oh yea this makes women horny!!
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good post man. I completely agree.
 
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