"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My prom date is giving weird signs.

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A) My prom date heard I was going to ask her before I actually did
B) She also knew she was my second choice
C) I hooked up with her friend a few months back, and screwed that friend over because i DID NOT want to go to prom with her, the friend probably talked mad sh!t about me to my date.
D) I barely know the girl I asked, except that shes a HB8 n I'd like to tap it.

Thats the background info. I asked the girl in the most casual "Hey who are you going to prom with?" "No one." "Alright how about you go with me." kinda way.
It worked. But now I feel like its backfiring. I've hung out with her once since i asked her like a month ago. Originally it was planned to be a one-on-one date and she even bragged to a mutual friend about it, shes actually told like 100 peopel we're going together lol. But it turned into a double-date 45minute long dinner because her friend had to go home to babysit or some sh!t.

and I've been out of town the last 2 weekends, and she works at a pool now and is always working. She never really goes out of her way to talk to me unless we run into eachother in the empty halls or bump into eachother. I go out of my way like once or twice a week to go talk to her for like a minute n then disappear.
I'm back on the singles list so I feel out of my element trying this dating dealy again, i dont want a gf jsut a fvck buddy, but i want to have fun at prom, feel me?
any tips to quickly skyrocket interest?
I might call her tonight n try n set something up soon, but I don know. anyone?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well first off, does she ever try and make an effort to talk or see you at all? or are you always the first one doing everything, making the moves, if you are, drop her and find someone else, if not just play it by ear, look for signs, if you think shes avoiding you, then she probably is. thats all i can say from what your telling us

give us some updates with in the next few days, test things out with her, see what she goes for and what she doesnt
 

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i mean she doesnt go out of her away to avoid me, but she doesnt go out of her way to come see me when I'm with my friends. we bumped into eachother this mornin n we talked for 30ish seconds before i ran off to class. she usually isnt the first one to pull away when we're talking, I am. but often i pull away because it goes cold when its all her female friends around(dont know them) and maybe even her gay-guy best friend. lol.
i feel out of place with her friends haha. thank god we're going with my friends to prom :)
 

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Docs said:
30 seconds is a really long time to grab her hand and set up a kiss.
true, btu we're not really at that stage yet.
today she went out fo her way to come talk to me n our mutual friends n held a lotta eye-contact. 'm not stressin it anymore.
i guess the only weird thing is that she doesnt respond to kino very well...?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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