Before I get into it just know that I have read the DJbible and have been reading this site for a few months. Now to my problem.
Be prepared for a long post.
I do everything that I can to prevent myself from moving into the dreaded "friends" category and it never works. I meet alot of girls. I'm confident. I act like a jerk but still remain funny and confident (alot of girls tell me I'm funny). I compliment rarely. I'm never the first to initiate conversation (ie. Text message, IM, email, call). Girls actually end up talking to me alot and I am almost never without one texting me. Girls send me myspace requests....and ask for my number after we've talked on aim, I don't even have to ask and I make no hints of wanting to talk to her after that. Within a week I'll usually have hung out with a new girl I stay close play some light kino, make conversation, and I can't say that I haven't had fun going out with one lately. I'll usually end up spending time with them personally ie. alone time between us. But the big problem is I ALWAYS end up a friend. One of the most recent girls I've talked to (about 2weeks ago we met) told me that I was her best guy friend... I thought it would work then I was like fukk after I heard that. I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
The only logical answer I can come up with is that its because of my looks.
Now before you start saying I don't dress right I don't have good hygiene etc. I'll tell you right now thats not true I do whatever I can. I'm on prescription acne medication (my face has cleared up), I shower daily and have great hair (the girls love to feel it), I work out t hough I do have a gut, I've lost about 15lbs recently and I'm right on with the average weight for my height (6,1), I'm tan, I dress stylish with dressie type shoes (kswiss), a polo shirt, and khakis or jeans. My facial features aren't the greatest though. heh
I'd like to think it's not just my looks but I can't think of anything I'm doing wrong.
Help? Thoughts? Suggestions?
Be prepared for a long post.
I do everything that I can to prevent myself from moving into the dreaded "friends" category and it never works. I meet alot of girls. I'm confident. I act like a jerk but still remain funny and confident (alot of girls tell me I'm funny). I compliment rarely. I'm never the first to initiate conversation (ie. Text message, IM, email, call). Girls actually end up talking to me alot and I am almost never without one texting me. Girls send me myspace requests....and ask for my number after we've talked on aim, I don't even have to ask and I make no hints of wanting to talk to her after that. Within a week I'll usually have hung out with a new girl I stay close play some light kino, make conversation, and I can't say that I haven't had fun going out with one lately. I'll usually end up spending time with them personally ie. alone time between us. But the big problem is I ALWAYS end up a friend. One of the most recent girls I've talked to (about 2weeks ago we met) told me that I was her best guy friend... I thought it would work then I was like fukk after I heard that. I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
The only logical answer I can come up with is that its because of my looks.
Now before you start saying I don't dress right I don't have good hygiene etc. I'll tell you right now thats not true I do whatever I can. I'm on prescription acne medication (my face has cleared up), I shower daily and have great hair (the girls love to feel it), I work out t hough I do have a gut, I've lost about 15lbs recently and I'm right on with the average weight for my height (6,1), I'm tan, I dress stylish with dressie type shoes (kswiss), a polo shirt, and khakis or jeans. My facial features aren't the greatest though. heh
I'd like to think it's not just my looks but I can't think of anything I'm doing wrong.
Help? Thoughts? Suggestions?