5string
Master Don Juan
What I am trying to do here, is explain the dynamics of my marriage basically. How the IL stays high, how it's maintained and the roles that both of us have assumed voluntarily. In other words, how it works. Every relationship is different so do not take this as gospel. It's just how it works, at least for us.
I'm in my 50's now. White collar guy during the day, jeans n t-shirts at night. Really nice home, no debt and a 6 digit income. To a degree, I have status. I'm highly educated and well read. Now that I have told you how fvckin great I am, let me tell you about the other half.
She's an RN and brings home money as well. Smart, good looking and a killer figure (cordoncordon....I'll send you a pic).
We have taken on traditional roles in our marriage. I'm the hunter gatherer, and what I say goes. Does the wife contribute to the household? Of course she does. She shops for my clothes, cleans the house, get's up every morning at 6 to make my breakfast which I take to work. She even puts little love notes in my breakfast bag every now and then. The love is there guys. Plus, she fvcks me silly and vice versa. Always willing to try something new. She also makes a real effort to be feminine. Wears dresses and heels at the house, has her nails done and her appearance all said and done, is that of a woman who takes care of herself. She has pride.
What do I do? I bring home the bacon. I take care of her. I maintain her lifestyle and she rewards me for it (not a gold digger). She just knows how to be a wife and lover.
Mrs.5string knows I have options and she could be replaced in short order. At least she thinks so which is fine by me. All said and done, she's got a pretty good gig and is willing to do whatever it takes to maintain the marriage in it's present stage.
So what am I trying to pass along here? Maybe it's that if you can find a woman who is a bit traditional and somewhat submissive, she just might be the ticket. A woman who is motivated to please her man is the best thing that could happen to a guy. But, you have to reward her for it. It's a two way street.
And to the new mods....why don't you create a married man forum so I can post all of my bullsh!t over there?
I'm in my 50's now. White collar guy during the day, jeans n t-shirts at night. Really nice home, no debt and a 6 digit income. To a degree, I have status. I'm highly educated and well read. Now that I have told you how fvckin great I am, let me tell you about the other half.
She's an RN and brings home money as well. Smart, good looking and a killer figure (cordoncordon....I'll send you a pic).
We have taken on traditional roles in our marriage. I'm the hunter gatherer, and what I say goes. Does the wife contribute to the household? Of course she does. She shops for my clothes, cleans the house, get's up every morning at 6 to make my breakfast which I take to work. She even puts little love notes in my breakfast bag every now and then. The love is there guys. Plus, she fvcks me silly and vice versa. Always willing to try something new. She also makes a real effort to be feminine. Wears dresses and heels at the house, has her nails done and her appearance all said and done, is that of a woman who takes care of herself. She has pride.
What do I do? I bring home the bacon. I take care of her. I maintain her lifestyle and she rewards me for it (not a gold digger). She just knows how to be a wife and lover.
Mrs.5string knows I have options and she could be replaced in short order. At least she thinks so which is fine by me. All said and done, she's got a pretty good gig and is willing to do whatever it takes to maintain the marriage in it's present stage.
So what am I trying to pass along here? Maybe it's that if you can find a woman who is a bit traditional and somewhat submissive, she just might be the ticket. A woman who is motivated to please her man is the best thing that could happen to a guy. But, you have to reward her for it. It's a two way street.
And to the new mods....why don't you create a married man forum so I can post all of my bullsh!t over there?
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