"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My plate's friend is trying to sabotage relationship I have with her.

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Mazer

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Have a plate who I have been seeing for 16 weeks. She has a friend who is always talking shyt about me, never even met the chick. She is always chirping in my plates ear, mentioning to her "isnt it strange that you guys arent in a relationship yet", also " how come you havent met any of his friends, and why not?!" This bish (my plates friend) is fwb with a Chad for over a year. He wont commit. How do I nip this shyt in the bud? I told my plate that she is jealous of our situation. Anything else I can add.
 
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Why let it bother you? Who gives a f*uck what her friend thinks. If she leaves because of what her friend keeps saying, she wasn't worth your time. Some plates fall, some spin slower, and some you stop spinning.

Don't complicate it. Be a DJ, not her b*itch.
 
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You say she is a plate? Well plates drop off sometimes.

You can't stop her friend from talking schit.. If she is a quality chick, she will ignore her friend.

If she is naive and gulable, then better she drops off now, instead of months down the line, once you have developed oneitis.

16 weeks? That is NOTHING man.. I wouldn't dream of taking a bich to meet family after only 16 weeks.

You know diddly sqwat about a person, in that short time!
 
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Mazer said:
Have a plate who I have been seeing for 16 weeks. She has a friend who is always talking shyt about me, never even met the chick. She is always chirping in my plates ear, mentioning to her "isnt it strange that you guys arent in a relationship yet", also " how come you havent met any of his friends, and why not?!" This bish (my plates friend) is fwb with a Chad for over a year. He wont commit. How do I nip this shyt in the bud? I told my plate that she is jealous of our situation. Anything else I can add.
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She's trying to get your girl to push for committment to help her at your detriment, quite a bit different than true sabotage

You're only at risk of having the "what are we" talk


soulforge said:
16 weeks? That is NOTHING man.. I wouldn't dream of taking a bich to meet family after only 16 weeks.

You know diddly sqwat about a person, in that short time!
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Lmao I doubt this girl is a secret agent. He knows plenty about her if he cared to find out.
 
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