"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My plan to become "big"

Glumix

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Well, actually, I do not want to become big. ;)

I want to put on 10-20lbs of muscle but most importantly I want to feel different, more stable and more strong. I don't care about the look. I am already fvcking handsome.

I am 36, 5.75ft, 150lbs.

So I am not big but in good shape. I do a lot of sport already, mainly outdoor sport from running to climbing, skiing, etc...

But I struggle with my legs and back muscles. My legs are not very strong and as I spend 10h a day sitting in front of a computer I have back problems.

I do not want to go in a gym. It bores me.

So I based my program on this video :

I used it as a base and adapted it with some information I found here, mainly this thread : http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index....der-a-full-body-workout-esp-for-newbs.113762/

I think I will do that twice or thrice a week after a 20-30 minutes run. And during the week-end I will do my other sport activities.

Here we go :

20x Row + Dead lift
20x Lunge + Hammer/Extension/Simple
20x Squats + Press
15x Walkout + Pushup
15x Dips
10x Pullups/Chinups

Repeat 2 or 3 times. This takes about 30 minutes to complete 3 repetitions.

I already tried that once and I have aching muscles in my legs, arms and back. Good!

What do you think?

Oh and I adapted what I eat accordingly with less fat and more proteins/carbs as well.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AttackFormation

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Seems like you've already figured out what you're going to do and had good results. What exactly do you want advice on?
 

Glumix

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Seems like you've already figured out what you're going to do and had good results. What exactly do you want advice on?
Well, do you think it's a good program overall ?
I really have no idea what I am doing but theoretically it seems OK.
 
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