"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My Opinion On Cheating

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sstype said:
In other words, if you find the kind of woman who adds to you life rather than takes away from it, you shouldn't be worried about her cheating if she is investing herself into your success and happiness.

You just have to trust that you are the one she wants at the end of the day. Most women won't cheat if they are happy in a relationship....although it can happen regardless. Its important to establish your expectations at the beginning of the relationship and if she fails to meet them....to decide whether its worth it to continue being with her.

Screen your women guys.
That sums it up.

If you date around enough, you know the kind of women who are likely to cheat. Party girls. Attention W****s. Etc.

Screen them out early. I've had my ups and downs in the dating game, but I feel pretty confident in the few women who I deem worthy of the title "girlfriend".

If any infidelity happens, it's because I did a poor job of screening. Not because of feminism, or womankind, or whatever else.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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