"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My new plan

Chamber36

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Hi just so you guys know I've been doing MMA for three years and been doing jiu jitsu for the past few months. I never went to the gym, but I am noticing that I need to train my body, mainly my abs, lats, biceps, delts, pecks and traps.

Since I don't go to the gym, I will get fit by doing small workouts several times a day.

I will start by doing 20 pushups 4 times a day, for a total of 80 pushups.
Alongside that I'll do 8 pull ups 3x a day.

By varying the push ups I can target the delts, lats and traps. Through pull ups I can target my biceps, lats and traps. I'll see if I can do ab exercises in between.

I've been very focussed on push and pull ups before. I used to do 80 push ups a day, and I got pretty buff within a month or 2. Since I gradually let it slide, I'll pick my old habit again. I am not going to dive straight into it, but just try and do as many workouts as I can.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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