"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My Math Approach to "Quality Woman"

Hitman10000

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Nice post and formula Latinoman, I recommend this calculator work for men as well (Gauge your own level) and you should only look for woman equal/greater, or one notch below max.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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STR8UP said:
Dude, I hope you are just playing up your clown act, cause only a fool would want to marry a virgin. If you don't know why that is you really need to take a break from the 386 daily "hor" posts and learn a little bit.
perhaps he suffers from tiny **** syndrome... it's a fear that once the girl compares your package to a larger one she's had in the past, she will no longer be satisifed with you. The easy way to avoid this is only date virgins.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
A high quality woman = "Virgin" - anything else is not quality - this is the basis - only if she was a virgin to her husband!! Otherwise you are merely a convenient tool for her future security and comfort!! You are not as special as you portray yourself to be!!!
I'd love to only date virgins. I'd love to know that I was the only one who'd ever fukked my wife. I'd love to think I had a realistic chance at that. Maybe you would in an ultra-conservative primitive society. But not in the modern day sex crazed society. It's not gonna happen. Less than 5% of women over 18 are virgins, probably less. Apparently Last Man Standing's wife has been lying a little bit. I mean, if YOU had as many options as women do nowadays (esp. with all the AFC's), would YOU remain a virgin?
 

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About the "Virgin" thing, that is true.

Imagine yourself dating a girl for 2-3 years and then you propose to her, the entire time she has claimed she is a virgin. You've fingered her, gotten bjs, etc but no real sex. Okay, once you have spent $3000-5000 on the engagement/marriage you then start having sex with her. You ejaculate within one minute of putting your thing inside of her. Okay, so you have sex another night... and it's alright but was it worth waiting 2-3 years for this? Then you find out in a couple weeks she doesn't feel like having sex..cause it's not the same as if you met a girl who started having sexual intercourse after a month or 2 from dating. The sex starts sucking a couple months into the marriage ..Or in a worse case scenario, she is really gross down there and you're f*cking stuck with this until she divorces ($profits$) or dies.

I used to have a "virgins are the best because they're moral" thought pattern, then I thought to myself....if they want to hold themselves back for religious or whatever reasons - you are gonna be dating someone very frigid and goes against what is "normal human instinct"

Normal Human Instinct = Sleep, Eat, Sh*t, and F*ck. You don't do those normal human instincts and you're not a human. I feel sorry for those guys that date a woman for 1-2 years and all they get is kissing or hugs. That is a f*cking sad life considering your life can end at any time.
 

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##17 said:
What's up my friend?

This forum is so much better than MHDL.
No much. Currently working very long hours in this business trip (sadly, no laptops on this one so posting from pager). In fact just got out of work. And this is east coast time.

I'm glad to see you here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What the hell is MHDL forum?

This is a good post.

I see way too many guys put up with hotties with issues. I've done it. It isn't a good thing.
 
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