We talk about “quality women” in here. In fact, it is becoming one of the most discussed topics. But why would we want to define “quality woman”? Quite simply because that’s the type of woman with want to probably spent a lifetime with.
I see the HB-10 quite a bit here (no necessary the Mature Forum). But let’s be honest…we all have different standards. For me, a 39 year old man with already my OWN children and divorced…I take a look at several issues.
For instance…in my math I deduct points for other issues once her physical appearance has been evaluated. Now, this is not set in stone but it gives you an idea. Furthermore, the age issue that you will see in the list is something that is going to adjust as I get older (e.g. right now a 50 year old woman is -10…but if I was 70, then she would probably be more than fine).
I start by giving her points for her appearance (0-10). Then I start taking away points based on other issues (once again, the points in here can change and are simply given to you so you can see the magnitude of how high or low I measure certain qualities):
-1 if divorced (make it -1.5 if the divorce was bitter or nasty)
-0.5 for each additional divorce (make it -1 for each divorce that was bitter)
-1 per child (make it -2 per child that has some kind of mental/physical disability and make it -1.5 per child that has drugs/legal issues)
-1 if she has alcohol issues
-2 if she was in jail
-1 if she is seeing psychological or psychiatric help
-1 if she does not work
-0.5 if she does certain type of jobs that requires skill but little to no education such as cutting hair and she happens to be over 28
-1 if she is doing certain type of jobs that requires NO skill such as waitress and cashier jobs and she happens to be over 25
-0.5 if she is over 32 but below 35 (I’m 39)
-0.5 if she is below 25 and above 22 (I’m 39)
-1 if she is legal but below 22 (I’m 39)
-2 if she is over 35 but below 40 (I’m 39)
-3 if she is over 40 (I’m 39)
-10 if she is over 50 (I’m 39)
What does this do? It gives those women value. It allows me to identify what is “quality woman”. And more importantly…keep me honest when it comes to potential issues of marriage. Therefore, it allows me identify which women are marriage material for me at this stage of my life.
Note:Now, the above can become a mute point if she is disqualified from the get go. For instance, a woman that sleeps around with losers, gang bangers, drug addicts, etc. is a woman that is automatically disqualified. Or if she has illegal substance issues or steals she is also disqualified. And a drunk is also disqualified. And I will disqualify them for issues such as “relationship” or simply sex.
I see the HB-10 quite a bit here (no necessary the Mature Forum). But let’s be honest…we all have different standards. For me, a 39 year old man with already my OWN children and divorced…I take a look at several issues.
For instance…in my math I deduct points for other issues once her physical appearance has been evaluated. Now, this is not set in stone but it gives you an idea. Furthermore, the age issue that you will see in the list is something that is going to adjust as I get older (e.g. right now a 50 year old woman is -10…but if I was 70, then she would probably be more than fine).
I start by giving her points for her appearance (0-10). Then I start taking away points based on other issues (once again, the points in here can change and are simply given to you so you can see the magnitude of how high or low I measure certain qualities):
-1 if divorced (make it -1.5 if the divorce was bitter or nasty)
-0.5 for each additional divorce (make it -1 for each divorce that was bitter)
-1 per child (make it -2 per child that has some kind of mental/physical disability and make it -1.5 per child that has drugs/legal issues)
-1 if she has alcohol issues
-2 if she was in jail
-1 if she is seeing psychological or psychiatric help
-1 if she does not work
-0.5 if she does certain type of jobs that requires skill but little to no education such as cutting hair and she happens to be over 28
-1 if she is doing certain type of jobs that requires NO skill such as waitress and cashier jobs and she happens to be over 25
-0.5 if she is over 32 but below 35 (I’m 39)
-0.5 if she is below 25 and above 22 (I’m 39)
-1 if she is legal but below 22 (I’m 39)
-2 if she is over 35 but below 40 (I’m 39)
-3 if she is over 40 (I’m 39)
-10 if she is over 50 (I’m 39)
What does this do? It gives those women value. It allows me to identify what is “quality woman”. And more importantly…keep me honest when it comes to potential issues of marriage. Therefore, it allows me identify which women are marriage material for me at this stage of my life.
Note:Now, the above can become a mute point if she is disqualified from the get go. For instance, a woman that sleeps around with losers, gang bangers, drug addicts, etc. is a woman that is automatically disqualified. Or if she has illegal substance issues or steals she is also disqualified. And a drunk is also disqualified. And I will disqualify them for issues such as “relationship” or simply sex.
