"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm going HAM at self improvement. So much that I have been confronted by friends and family members. WHY CHANGE? That's what they ask me, they ask me that flat out. People don't like change. It makes them insecure if they aren't doing it too.

This is the start of my log here. I am popular on other internet forums but I want to try to keep this separate as possible(the other forums are not related in any way and my username is different). I am posting this so maybe there is someone out there like me that can get some motivation from my posts.

6'2-6'3

Late 2009 - 138lb with maybe 10% bodyfat.
2010-2011 - 172lb, a lot of body fat. I got pissed and did something about it.
2012 - 150lb(still no lifting of any kind, just cardio). I got shat on my some ***** because i was a beta fgt. Some friend sent the DJ bible and that's all I needed. I set out to become a Don Juan.

June 2013 - lifting begins. I think I was benching 10lbs on each side of the bar LOL

Jan 31 2014 - 192lbs

Feb. 18 2014 - 162lbs. yes, i cut like a motherfcer. http://eatingacademy.com kept 80% strength

April 15 2014 - 157lbs. 8-pack abs but I'm still regarded as "skinny" by guys that have lifted more than a year.

15 day bulk starts here

I am about 165lbs and my bench went up significantly. I went from basically zero carbs to lots of rice. 8-pack is gone but you can still see abs. Girls don't blatantly stare anymore when I'm at the pool or beach, but that's fine because it all comes off when I cut.


I am going to bulk 1-2 more weeks and then try to cut out the carbs while maintaining strength.


Bulking diet: 3000kcal or more, 170g+ protein
Cutting diet: Strictly ketogenic. There are no cheat days.



 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I am now 170lbs with shoes. My bench has gone up significantly and I'm still untrained from skipping out on squats during keto. My abs are "gone" but really they are better than ever. I absolutely killed them a couple days ago.
 

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I've started keto 5/13/2014 12:00am. HIIT Cycling with only protein consumed after. Glycogen is depleted, will piss purple on ketone strips tuesday.

Lifts have increased ~24% (1RM)

I will carb feed on the weekends leading to June 1. After June 1 I will either go to TKD or keep with this CKD pattern.
 

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DanZy said:
Your cutting diet is far from sustainable, you're going to rebound monstrously and hate the process.
Rebound how? I got really dizzy the first night I ate a lot of carbs but that was it. I am incredibly insulin sensitive from the keto. My vitals have improved so much that my doctor has tested and retested them(and had lots of blood work done)

If you are just talking about self control, I can handle it.

Tomorrow is leg day. if I'm not in keto in the morning I won't eat carbs, but I will definitely consume ~20g before workout if I am over 60mg/dL
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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