Her
-She has four kids that she yells at but says she loves.
-She has a very bad attitude.
-She likes frequenting the bars and has guys flirting with her which she cannot help but she comes home and tells me about all of these guys flirting with her.
-Everything she does she has to have her families approval. They say no she says no. Heavily influenced by them.
-Has in the past put her friends and relatives above or in front of me.
-Went out to a bar one night when we were split up but trying to work things out and went home with some guy and told me about it stating she slept with a pillow between them (yeah right) She didn’t think I should have any problem with this and even asked me to take her to work the next day. When I asked her if she was going to go out with him again she said no because I don’t know what I want and I don’t want to hurt HIM. (Forget about me huh?)
-Appears to care about no one but herself.
-Will not communicate or compromise in the relationship.
-If you disagree with like for say her going to the bar well you have an attitude and she breaks up with you and leaves. Saying I am done.
-Has lots of so called guy friends.
-She moved in with me and I sold my house to move to her town. As soon as I moved down here she got mad at me and moved out. I knew no one.
-Has left me and come back six times.
-Has had 7 different jobs in the last year.
-Has moved 8 times in the last year.
-If she wants to go out with her friends on Friday night she will start a fight on wed thur to give her an excuse.
-Every time she leaves I will not call her. With in a month she will be calling me again.
-She always has some reason she calls me (I have your brother and sisters pictures still, I think I may have HIV etc.)
-Will always start calling when a holiday. (Don’t have a clue what this is about)
-Can never make up her mind. Is always saying I don’t know what I want or I don’t know what is going on. Seems like she is confused all the time just drifting thru life.
-Never gets fixed up unless she is going out.
-Has never had a relationship longer than 6 months since her divorce. When she was married she was on and off with him constantly.
-Has no knowledge or concept of how to react in a real relationship.
-Always has some drama going on in her life.
-Dresses flashy and is very sexual.
-Is always on and off even with friends and relatives.
-verbally mentally abusive
-In front of people she is the most charming person in the world and never shows her bad side. Behind closed doors it is different. With this she goes around and tells people you are abusive when the exact opposite is true.
-Has the my way or the highway attitude and does what she wants and if you don’t like it tough I will just leave.
You are suppose to drop everything for her but if you have a problem it is just that your problem.
-Takes the smallest incidents and turns them into major events.
These are just a few. I could go on and on. All of this and she truly believes that the problem in the relationship is me.
Me
-Catered to her needs.
-Was there for her for anything she needed anytime.
-Cooked/Cleaned etc.
-She did not have to work.
-Supported her kids when she was not working and her ex was not paying CS.
-Let her and her four kids move in with me.
-Bought her anything she wanted.
-Always telling her I love her and showing her it.
-Bought her something for every occasion even though she never bought me anything.
-Listened and comforted her when she had fears and concerns. Solved her problems.
-Never cheated on her or even flirted with anyone else.
-Moved her 6 times. Helped her get jobs.
All of this and I am abusive and the reason the relationship ended. I was mean to her per her.
-She has four kids that she yells at but says she loves.
-She has a very bad attitude.
-She likes frequenting the bars and has guys flirting with her which she cannot help but she comes home and tells me about all of these guys flirting with her.
-Everything she does she has to have her families approval. They say no she says no. Heavily influenced by them.
-Has in the past put her friends and relatives above or in front of me.
-Went out to a bar one night when we were split up but trying to work things out and went home with some guy and told me about it stating she slept with a pillow between them (yeah right) She didn’t think I should have any problem with this and even asked me to take her to work the next day. When I asked her if she was going to go out with him again she said no because I don’t know what I want and I don’t want to hurt HIM. (Forget about me huh?)
-Appears to care about no one but herself.
-Will not communicate or compromise in the relationship.
-If you disagree with like for say her going to the bar well you have an attitude and she breaks up with you and leaves. Saying I am done.
-Has lots of so called guy friends.
-She moved in with me and I sold my house to move to her town. As soon as I moved down here she got mad at me and moved out. I knew no one.
-Has left me and come back six times.
-Has had 7 different jobs in the last year.
-Has moved 8 times in the last year.
-If she wants to go out with her friends on Friday night she will start a fight on wed thur to give her an excuse.
-Every time she leaves I will not call her. With in a month she will be calling me again.
-She always has some reason she calls me (I have your brother and sisters pictures still, I think I may have HIV etc.)
-Will always start calling when a holiday. (Don’t have a clue what this is about)
-Can never make up her mind. Is always saying I don’t know what I want or I don’t know what is going on. Seems like she is confused all the time just drifting thru life.
-Never gets fixed up unless she is going out.
-Has never had a relationship longer than 6 months since her divorce. When she was married she was on and off with him constantly.
-Has no knowledge or concept of how to react in a real relationship.
-Always has some drama going on in her life.
-Dresses flashy and is very sexual.
-Is always on and off even with friends and relatives.
-verbally mentally abusive
-In front of people she is the most charming person in the world and never shows her bad side. Behind closed doors it is different. With this she goes around and tells people you are abusive when the exact opposite is true.
-Has the my way or the highway attitude and does what she wants and if you don’t like it tough I will just leave.
You are suppose to drop everything for her but if you have a problem it is just that your problem.
-Takes the smallest incidents and turns them into major events.
These are just a few. I could go on and on. All of this and she truly believes that the problem in the relationship is me.
Me
-Catered to her needs.
-Was there for her for anything she needed anytime.
-Cooked/Cleaned etc.
-She did not have to work.
-Supported her kids when she was not working and her ex was not paying CS.
-Let her and her four kids move in with me.
-Bought her anything she wanted.
-Always telling her I love her and showing her it.
-Bought her something for every occasion even though she never bought me anything.
-Listened and comforted her when she had fears and concerns. Solved her problems.
-Never cheated on her or even flirted with anyone else.
-Moved her 6 times. Helped her get jobs.
All of this and I am abusive and the reason the relationship ended. I was mean to her per her.
