"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JdelaSilviera said:
When I joined sosuave, i was expecting experienced guys to help me succeed even better with women. I´m young, finishing my masters degree, and never had any problems getting girls, still I want to be perfect in everything I do, and had hope to learn some great stuff here.

My conclusion is that this forum is full with women hating, bitter losers, that think they´re cool because they never commit to a woman. Admit it you are just so insecure that you are afraid to get dumped, it is that simple.

Also except for the advice of RescueM and a few others, most advice is pathetic, you look like robots saying "spin more plates", or 2 strikes rule (wich is absurd and will never get you anywhere because most people are not perfect and tend to screw much more than 2 times), if you see a guy having any type of problems you just assume she is not interested, and try to sound like some spiritual guru who knows what´s happening in other peoples lives "oh she is probably fvcking 10 guys beside you" this is just laughable. This just got so ridiculous I don´t even know why Im still writing this.

This forum should be about "CREATING ATTRACTION", instead of behaving like losers and quitters and run to another girl, start learning about how to create attraction. Her interested level might be low.... but hey that´s what pickup knowledge is for..for changing that. If this is just numbers game, why do you still hang around here?.

bye bye and honestly I hope you get the success with women you want.

Amen brother. Its really that most of these people use this dogma to compensate for their own lack of success with women. If you ever have a chance, read my 100 approach journal. It may not be the fantasy and magical DJ guide to get endless pvssy, but its damn 100% true based on real experience in the field
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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