Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

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Sart

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Okay, I have a few parting comments for you gents and then you are on your own. I came in here looking for answers 6 months ago, but I found my answers within a week or so. I have stayed on as a teacher but my teachings are simply a little too advanced for this site. No offence intended by the way, this site is useful for many blokes.

Anyway, some parting advice.

1. If you want an LTR you WILL regret it. Let the woman pursue the LTR, your job is to resist it...DO NOT BECOME A LONELY HEART.
2. If you want a really nice/good girl, BEWARE, nearly every girl I have boned has been a supposed good girl. They make their boyfriend wait for them and prove their niceness, while they are having sex with predators. OKAY, you might not want to believe this and you are right in assuming it isnt EVERY chick, but its probably more than you think.
3. WOMEN ARE ILLOGICAL. They will never add up, ever! Play them before they play you. If a healthy strong one happens along, let her pursure the LTR stuff. I simply CANNOT emphasize this enough.
4. If you have troubles with getting women, then do the exact opposite of what you are doing now, it obviously isn't working for you anyway.
5. Finally, CHANGE! Make the concsious decision to BE a different person. Whether it be a playa, a pimp, a successful businessman,,,,,whatever! BE it, don't just try to copy some bits of acts and one liners, BE IT!

I wish all you fellas the very best. I am not leaving because of issues with the site, its a great site, just listen to the right people. I am now simply too busy to get in here, also, I need a teacher, don't need to be a pupil.

PARTING WARNING: Watch out for the gents who have been in here every bloody day for the last ex years. Ask yourself, If they are so successful, how do they get the time? I have been extremely regular in here over the last 6 months myself, but there are men in here who are literally here every day with massive posts. These people are theoretical dudes, no street experience.

OKAY: So I am off to try and become as close to being a PIMP as you can be in Australia. In other words, my aim is to elevate my game to massive PLAYA proportions. WHY? I have done the LTR thing, the marriage thing, the nice guy thing, the bad boy thing, I have had it all and cured it all. Now I am working heavily on the meditation/metaphysics aspect. When I am 55 or so I will settle down again and get with a woman to grow old with. Until then, I intend bangin more quiff than I ever dreamed possible.

Probably sounds arrogant and stupid but, read my post from way back and see the difference 6 months can make. That isnt to say you should all aim at the same thing by the way.

Good luck to all of you, its been an honour speaking with many of you. ALL THE BEST TO YOU AND SUCCESS TO YOU.
 

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Why leave? I remember somebody else making a farewell thread and they still post today.

How do you know the guys with large post counts don't have experience? Do you see them in person?

nice tips though
 

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Good tips ..

Definitely agree with the LTR aspect. Let her pursue it, and no, this can't be stressed enough. The female does the selecting and you do the choosing. She selects you and you choose to be with her or not.

As for the Pimp thing .. think this is way overplayed a bit. Just give me what i consider a 10 and i'll be good .. no need to look elsewhere.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'd say you are far from done. Over the past year I've seen you post superb comments, but the game has become too much the central focus to you. Your tips give the impression that flings are the objective in life and that a man will never find females with whom to connect and be companions with. Good luck if you want to become a playa now, but realize that sooner or later, you'll feel unfulfilled and will return.
 

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Wow sart, i really would hope you stay...for your own sake...

Honestly, how old are you, trying to be "the pimp"? Are you serious? You know what happens to guys who are concentrated on banging away girls over their entire lives? They end up with 3 kids from different women, without a wife.

I suggest your "advanced holyness" gets off your high horse and actually learns how to enjoy life instead of persuing pu$$y all day and all night...
 
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Sart's advice seems to me, to be right on the button. :p
 

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good bye.....

Sart,

Good bye and good luck........

Btw, you will be back.

Believe me, your game ain't as 'tight' as you think it is............

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Originally posted by Sart
A very vulnerable girl was working as a prostitue and I visited her. FIRST and LAST prostitute for me, can't objectify people. Anyway, she was actually a vulnerable, naive and dependent girl who didn't belong there. She was lost because her profession was flat and her friends had moved away. She got caught and I was able to help her by giving her a career and telling her how to handle everything. All innocent, happy to help.

Her friends who caught her then got her a job because they didn't like her working with me because she was vulnerable, she cried and asks for my advice. I told her to go, she owed me nothing. She decided to stay because I was a mentor/Father figure. I am married, 36 and wife and I haven't had sex for 3 years. She is 23.

She recently got a boyfriend but more because she simply isn't good on her own. She described him as not her type, too short, but nice to her, loves his parents and someone she could be friends with if they break up.

She and I share intimate discussions, she sms's me when she knows I am out with the boys. She bakes me cakes and gets me expensive personal presents for my birthday. She is a touchy person, but she touches me alot, leans into me and tickles me and hits me. We have a Thursday special lunch each week and eat together for breakfast and lunch theother days. She says she would leave if I left because she can relate to me. She seemed to get catty when an attractive client came in dressed up, she said "she dressed for the occassion". She theorises that my wife kept her boyfriend until she knew she had me, which is derogatory and personal. But then she will say that she wouldn't want to know about her husbands first love if she was married. When I say, "sorry if I offended" she replies "it's okay, Im talking about if a partner, down the track said it to me" Which makes me wonder if she is saying, YOU AND I are not and never will be partners.

She hints at hiking and playing tennis together. My wife and her firneds think she is after me, but they dont know how we met.

I am bigger, stronger, and richer and more masculine than her boyfriend and she has even said that she thinks I am good looking.

If she wanted me I would be with her tomorrow, if she only wanted a mentor, I could cope with that, its just the signals and the not knowing that is annoying. I do love her and dont want to hurt her. I did tell her I loved her, but that probably was more a paternal thing at the time....not sure, but it didn't freak her out anyway.

Any thoughts anyone?
Yes Sart – I remember your first thread!! Here was my partial response – you later told us that your wife was ill so your whole scenario was not given to us up front - but this was my first impression of your state!

I stated….

“ I have an aluminum bat in my hand and I am waiting for SART to stick his head into the forum so that I can bash his head in and knock some sense into it!!!!!

You were given good advice by everyone!!! I can write a book analyzing your 'Ho scenario' but you are missing the entire point and are not in focus on what really matters - YOU!!!

The question is not whether this Hor (yes, she is a hor!!) likes you – hors like everyone!! The question to you is “Do you like yourself?”

I take it you are a miserable person who is living a miserable existence regarding ‘love’ matters and by your disastrous relationship you call marriage this is quite evident! At this point, we shouldn’t even validate your invalid questions about this girl with worthy responses.

It is you who should be the topic of analysis and why you would want a loving relationship with a prostitute who doesn’t know how to love or knows what love is because she has been damaged mentally and emotionally or should I say she damaged herself!!! You are seeking love in the wrong place and with the wrong person!"




I hope your mindset has changed since your first post!

Good Skill!!
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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The post had some misogynistic undertones, but that is to be expected by someone who has been burned... I think players for the most part are just guys who have a pesimistic view on relationships, got screwed over, etc


Originally posted by Sart
PARTING WARNING: Watch out for the gents who have been in here every bloody day for the last ex years. Ask yourself, If they are so successful, how do they get the time? I have been extremely regular in here over the last 6 months myself, but there are men in here who are literally here every day with massive posts. These people are theoretical dudes, no street experience.
VERY TRUE
 

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go nuts brother..

good luck with the girls..

i know exactly how u feel..

i've posted this in many forms in many threads. all u need to take from this site is

- confidence to approach. its a numbers game, and the more approaches you make, the more success you will have.

- don't settle. after realising you have the confidence to approachm, you will quickly have options. don't settle for the first girl that comes along. it will take some searching before you find a girl you can be truly happy with.

but aside from that, things like
- don't call for 4 days
- don't pay for a date
- neg hits
- ****y and funny..

you don't NEED this stuff.. confidence to approach will get u *****es. not settling will make save you from depression. and u will learn everything else u need to learn along your journey.
 

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I certainly agree with points one and two

Good luck and as PR_L stated, hope you have learned and will avoid any bad sh1t in the future

Dietzcoi
 
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