"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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my girlfriend (of 2 1/2 weeks) is dieing for me to take her out on a date

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shark

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She basically asked me too. I don't want her to ask me. So now that she kind ASKED do i take her out or what? We usually go to friends houses and hang out there w/ everyone and makeout and stuff.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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shark

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also i feel like she wants me to pay for her. idk about u guys..but that goes against what i "believe". I means going ouit with somone for a few weeks, even a month..hell no. Maybe once in a while after things IF thing are serious

she claims its not about the money but i feel like she wants to act like a little princess
 
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Yo

I just think your boring her!

for her to come out and even ask you to take her out, come on now! take her out somewhere pay half and half or just pay for her... she wants to have fun homie, being at a "Friends" house hanging out all the time is real boring...
 
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she isn't bored..when we hang out she always says how much fun she had. somtime she gets upset when i dont say or act as happy as she is.

I just feel like i'd be a tool if i paid for her...2 weeks into a HIGH SCHOOL RELATIONSHIP!?
 
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Not really, I wouldn't mind. What does age matter?

If you are worried about money then find something cheap or even free to do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you're worried about the money, do what arutha said and take her on a cheap or fun date. She's your girlfriend now, if you don't want to pay a cent on her that's fine, but she will expect more from you. And her asking you to take her somewhere is an obvious sign of her wanting to do something. If you don't want her to ask you to go on dates and you won't make them yourself, how can she be your girlfriend? You're not even "going out" with her. Unless you take action, I hope she finds a man that will actually please her (heck, maybe she can take a trip over here to NYC :D )
 
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what r u waiting for man..take her to the movies or a place she would like to go to.
 
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take her out or word will spread that your cheap and you don't want that to happen
 
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There should always be times when u take her out and pay for her. In the LONG RUN it should come out around even or prolly the guy ends up paying a little more.

A mature relationship typically includes goin out to dinner and such.
 
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