my gf wants to wait A YEAR!?

Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

KontrollerX

Master Don Juan

Jun 12, 2008

Guy: We were on top of eachother moving back and forth and thats all I remember your honor.
Girl: No he stuck it in me I swear!
Judge: Well there's no DNA evidence and you both admitted to being consensually naked ontop of one another. Bottom line is you kids need to learn about dry humping or abstinence. Court adjourned!

"Even by those morals your advice is wrong. As several people have pointed out, accidentally sticking it in is rape."

Better?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.