Michaelangelo
Don Juan
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So before i give you the story I'll give a little background info.. I've been seeing this girl for about 8 weeks, and right away theres been a strong connection and we both have agreed we are exclusive. This girl really is a good girl at heart which is why i see potential with her but here comes the story...
So 2 nights ago my best friend and his GF and me and my girl go out clubbing together. We've all hung out together and double dated a few times and so the girls have now become somewhat friends. In the club everyone has a few drinks and then we leave the club and decide to all head to my best friends apartment. I'm in the front seat with my best friend whos driving while the two girls are in the back. Just as we are about to arrive at my buddies i look behind into the back seat and notice the girls are making out. Im in shock and so is my best friend. They are makin out for about 30 plus seconds as me and my buddy are talking wondering how we should handle this. This is all happening just as we pull up to my buddies apartment. I'm a little drunk and I sorta snapped and pushed my girls head off with my hand pretty hard so that theyll stop as were just parking. So i get of the car pretty upset with my buddy. We both walk ahead while the girls are following behind us. Me and my buddy look back and the girls are laughing, so now im real choked. So as we walk up to the place i tell my GF that we need to go for a walk..
So we go for a walk down the street to this park and i flip out on her. Telling how that its not acceptable at all. And I tell her i think how I'm so close to breaking up with her right now. And begin saying how we maybe need to go on a break. Immediately she breaks down into tears telling me how I'm the best thing thats ever happened to her and she begins just balling. She then told me how she did it with the intention that she thought I'd like it and how my bestfriends girl initiated it. I kept walking away from her as she followed in tears. Because we were both slightly drunk the drama and emotions were flying pretty high. She slept over that night and we did somewhat patch things over. I told her that if she ever did anything like that again it'd be over.
I think I do believe my girl when she tells me she didn't initiate it because my buddies girl is a few years older and seems like she would have. And i think i do believe my girl when she says she thought I'd like it. I just honestly thought she'd be smart enough to realize I'm not like that. She said that it didn't feel right. But actions speak louder than words and i think its so ****ed how they did almost secretly in the back seat. My girlfriend said she saw me talk to my bestfriend so she thought i was commenting on how i was enjoying it. My girl also told me that she trusted my bestfriends girl friend and that she got forced into it.
So i need some opinions. Do you think how I reacted initially was a sign of weakness? I personally believe how I reacted was right because what she did isn't the kinda thing I want a GF of mine to do in my life. I feel that I scared the **** out of her when she thought I was going to break up with her.
Is it really a big deal tho that these girls made out considering the situation. I wanna know how anyone else would act considering the situation..
Should I at all consider it like cheating on me? I do like this girl. Do you think i should just forget about it. My girl really did show huge remorce and upset which is why I have given her another chance
So 2 nights ago my best friend and his GF and me and my girl go out clubbing together. We've all hung out together and double dated a few times and so the girls have now become somewhat friends. In the club everyone has a few drinks and then we leave the club and decide to all head to my best friends apartment. I'm in the front seat with my best friend whos driving while the two girls are in the back. Just as we are about to arrive at my buddies i look behind into the back seat and notice the girls are making out. Im in shock and so is my best friend. They are makin out for about 30 plus seconds as me and my buddy are talking wondering how we should handle this. This is all happening just as we pull up to my buddies apartment. I'm a little drunk and I sorta snapped and pushed my girls head off with my hand pretty hard so that theyll stop as were just parking. So i get of the car pretty upset with my buddy. We both walk ahead while the girls are following behind us. Me and my buddy look back and the girls are laughing, so now im real choked. So as we walk up to the place i tell my GF that we need to go for a walk..
So we go for a walk down the street to this park and i flip out on her. Telling how that its not acceptable at all. And I tell her i think how I'm so close to breaking up with her right now. And begin saying how we maybe need to go on a break. Immediately she breaks down into tears telling me how I'm the best thing thats ever happened to her and she begins just balling. She then told me how she did it with the intention that she thought I'd like it and how my bestfriends girl initiated it. I kept walking away from her as she followed in tears. Because we were both slightly drunk the drama and emotions were flying pretty high. She slept over that night and we did somewhat patch things over. I told her that if she ever did anything like that again it'd be over.
I think I do believe my girl when she tells me she didn't initiate it because my buddies girl is a few years older and seems like she would have. And i think i do believe my girl when she says she thought I'd like it. I just honestly thought she'd be smart enough to realize I'm not like that. She said that it didn't feel right. But actions speak louder than words and i think its so ****ed how they did almost secretly in the back seat. My girlfriend said she saw me talk to my bestfriend so she thought i was commenting on how i was enjoying it. My girl also told me that she trusted my bestfriends girl friend and that she got forced into it.
So i need some opinions. Do you think how I reacted initially was a sign of weakness? I personally believe how I reacted was right because what she did isn't the kinda thing I want a GF of mine to do in my life. I feel that I scared the **** out of her when she thought I was going to break up with her.
Is it really a big deal tho that these girls made out considering the situation. I wanna know how anyone else would act considering the situation..
Should I at all consider it like cheating on me? I do like this girl. Do you think i should just forget about it. My girl really did show huge remorce and upset which is why I have given her another chance
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