my gf kissed another guy

Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

diablo

Master Don Juan

Apr 10, 2005

#101

Break up with her and keep her as a f-buddy. You get the sex, without the headaches and emotional trauma you'd get if she was a girlfriend - and really, titles are over-rated anyway. What's the difference between the girl you're sleeping with once or twice a week and going out with on the weekends who you call a "friend", and a "girlfriend". Nothing. Just the title.

Drop her, keep the sex going, and find a few other girls. Sure you've got "feelings" - but guess what, they'll pass. Don't let her see that you're sad by what happened - anger is fine, aloofness is better, but sadness can't be excused.

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.