"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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my gf is the most insecure EVER...

baurman

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I think my girlfriend must be the most insecure girl in the world. she always says it's my fault she's like that because when I used to always make her jealous. I just followed the bible and I never put her on a pedastal and just being confident and made her believe i can get any girl i want.
NOW this is hell, because she keeps saying I ****ed her friend and Im like what the hell? I never did anything with anyone else. I know my cousin tells her BS to get a rise out of her because he knows she's an insecure bytch. Sad part is, she'll believe them but not me if I deny it. She keeps asking me questions like "How many girls did you **** since you've been with me?" and I tell her NO ONE BUT YOU. No matter what I tell her, she will NEVER believe me! Also, What pisses me off the most, is She tries to make 'buddy-buddy' with my family members and I know the only reason she does this is to get information on me. Like for example, she went out with my cousin to a bar or something and I don't know why the hell my cousin said this but he told her I Had sex with another girl while I was with her. Now she believes him and is all on my ass about it and I'm telling her "I hardly talk to him and why the hell would I say anything personal like that to him?" I know that my cousin knows that she is insecure and he is trying to make her believe all this BS but she tells me "Why would he lie when he's drunk? You don't lie when you're drunk". I've never known a more insecure girl in my life. What are your thoughts on what I should confront her/tell her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kings_royalty

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I just followed the bible and I never put her on a pedastal and just being confident and made her believe i can get any girl i want.


Beautiful! *applauding* :rockon:

She hates the control that you have over her and its driving her batty. Whatever you do DO NOT give in to her bratty behavior, stick to your guns.
Tell her you are tired of the all the damn questions, and if she doesn't trust you, then you have no business being together, period.

Tell your cousin to chill out because he's causing you headaches. Unless of course he's trying to move in on her (something to think about).
 

Desdinova

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Now that you've learned how to attract a woman, you need to learn how to get rid of her.

She's insecure, and creating useless drama in your life. Those are two pretty good reasons to get rid of her.
 
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