"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My friends x is coming on to me?

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I know this guy at the gym. He dumped his girl bout 3 month ago. Just recently she started coming on to me. There has been many time where me, her and her x were in the gym at the same time. She keeps flirting with me right in front of him etc.. he doesnt do any thing. he says what up to me, and nothing to her. i noticed he ignores her. all he says to me is whats up. i dont understand how they can both see eachother at the same time in the gym. i have not said anything to her about their breakup.

i just want to know if she's up to no good. is she gonna use me?
just last weekend i took her for a ride on my harley. she met some of my other friends who are also friends of her x. they all know him and her were together. this is just sounding funny to me. she mentioned that she likes sportbikes more than harleys. her x boyfriend has a sportbike

now her x has his life together. he has a good job with 3 cars and a sportbike. he has his own place, and many women want him. He has the players qualities. he's one of those tall, dark handsome guys and well built and is going to compete for the mens fitness/health covermodel guy. Im not that good looking of a guy and i still live with my parents. he's 28, she's 26 and im 26
they were together for a year, and they looked good together. he treated her well till he dumped her. Just wondering why she would actually settle for a guy who's not up to par with her x?

is she tryin to use me?
is she serious bout me?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It seems like she wants to use you to make her ex boyfriend jealous. How does she act when her ex boyfriend is not around?
 
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she will talk to me and all, but not as much as when her x is around. when he's around, she's all over me

but she went for a ride with me on my harley? he wasnt around, but people that know him and her were together were around. im sure they told the x
 
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She seems to be using you. I would just play it casual and cool. Keep your emotions in check!!
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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She using you to get the guy jealous. She's all over you, cause she's trying to get to him.

Cut her off. You're not gonna get any. Dump her, cause she's spiteful
 
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The test...

Try making out with her when no one is watching. If she likes YOU she'll do it. If she's trying to make the X jealous, she'll turn you down.

Guard your heart and make her prove her interest in you.
 
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That is hard to do, because i have "no Confedence"
She is an intimidating girl. hell she look like a fitness model. i dont have the balls to just make a move on her. Ok, im a nice guy, and i tend to cater to a gilrs needs! i know its not good, but i just do. that is how i was brought up. now im not in great shape, im ok looking. i have a gut, due to my diet. i dont see how she can suddenly fall for a guy who is not in shape like her x

weird situation
 
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