I have a girl coming over tonight. A few other friends are coming over cause i live with my bestfriend he is a stoner, So they are all coming around to get high... I invited this girl to come over that i have only just started talking to, She works a few stores down, We exchanged numbers and then the next day i went in and was just talking to her, she was like "So what did you get upto last night?' I said "My best friend is a stoner, i live with him so we got high." She was full like "Awww, why didnt you invite me!!?" I said we are having one friday night (tonight) She said she would come,.....111!!!!! what do i do im reay nervous she is way outta my league, she is like a hb 9. How do i escalate. I'm 18 by the way.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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