"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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my female therapist is not not connecting...

dustmuffin

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My female therapist says I have no texture to my conversation. I'm not spilling my guts. I might need to get a male. She gave an example of an answer and I told her tmi get to the point. Anyway I don't know if she knows what to do with me. Just an anecdote.......
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No texture to your conversation with her or your conversation with others. Curious as to what her example was.
 

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No texture to your conversation with her or your conversation with others. Curious as to what her example was.
She meant that I don't talk like a woman. Details.....
 
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