"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My ex texted my uncle's wife when we broke up

Blacksheep

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I talked to my uncle's wife and she told me that this ex I was talking some days ago texted them the day we broke up.

Told something like that to them: "I just want to said goodbye, cause I think I wont see you again... We broke up, and I said some awful things about him to my family and I think we won't get back after that."

Correct if Im wrong but:

1 - It's not respectful to do such a thing. I didn't called her parents to say goodbye, cause I fcking dated her, not her parents.

2 - It seems just like a manipulation to try to play the nice girl. So my uncle call me and try to persuade me to get back to her, that she was sad and said about the mistakes she did.

Buut, what happened actually was no that. My uncle's wife said that they didn't think she was the right person for me. When they met her, they told each other that me and her didn't seem to have a genuine connection/feeling. And the I should focus on find a partner who have a job so she could help me. Also that I should focus on my goals like buying my house and career.

I know my uncle and his wife liked a lot my other ex before this last. But idk, it seemed a genuine feedback.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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