"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My Dream

Gammergq

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You know there is a fine line between success and failure in this world. What I really want is to get a good job in Marketing, have options when it comes to the fairer sex were I have a portfollio of girls with different looks and personality and if I settle down with one in the future that wouldn't be bad but I would like to have fun and have options before I decide to settle down. There is one thing standing inbetween my social dream with women and that is myself I don't know how to express my interest in the way I would like.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Interceptor

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Gamer,

You "express interest" in a woman who has expressed something "interesting" to YOU personally.
 
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