"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My definition of a DJ.

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A sociable, relaxed and cool guy who is always just natural. He has the power to control his mind and emotion that girls can never control them for him. Girls do not have the power to change what he likes or what he thinks. He has his own mind/belief and it belongs to him only. He loves to have FUN and he views life as a FUN game. He knows when to get serious during certain situation and he takes fully responsibility to anything he does.

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The KEY here is natural.

Just think about it, isn't it natural for girls to be attracted to guys? Isn't it natural for guys and girls to get together and do whatever they do? Why does a girl not accept an AFC? Isn't it because he doesn't act natural around her at all? Why does a girl dump her boyfriend(s) all the time? Isn't it because he doesn't act natural like he used to be anymore? Not being able to approach? Isn't it because you are not acting natural as if you are going up to a friend and say HI?

This is just my definition but I believe it's very obvious that it is the truth. IF not the whole truth, at least it's a big chunk of the truth.

Anyways. I hope every PUA practitioners will become successful and remember, ALWAYS HAVE A GREAT TIME!! There's just NO point in getting a girl if you are not going to have fun, is there? =)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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